What are your opinions? Have you ever had any experience (with your boss, colleague, subordinate, etc? How it happen? Will you consider doing something to let them know or you will just keep it in your mind?
Will it impact to professional looking? I mean it will cause the bad reputation?
Any ideas are welcomed!!!
2007-01-11 13:02:27 · 11 answers · asked by u_rius 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell yeah!! Take your time be careful because you are border line sexual harrassment when in the work place. Are both parties cool with this? All i did was complement her on something everyday,gave her a ride home every now and then,listen to her then one day BANG!! Dont flirt in front of anyone. Dont tell anyone. NOBODY... (Not anyone that works with you) But, it will become strange to work together if one of you are in a supervisor role if you two start sleeping together though. (trust me)
2007-01-11 13:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by McDaniel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have...more than once. It generally happened because I become attached very quickly to charming good-looking men with a great sense of humor. I only told one of them that I loved them and we carried on a relationship for over 2 years. However, it ended badly and we both got hurt. He quit the job. It was horrible. I know it looked bad to everyone else in the office. It was a co-worker, not a boss or subordinate. I think it hurt both of our reputations. My advice: DON'T DO IT.
2007-01-11 13:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by Deborah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now that is exactly what i am going through and it's driving me nuts. I have a huge crush on my boss, but i don't want to like him, he's too old for me. The guy had already been married and has a beautiful 9 years old, and i still can't help it. Maybe it's because we spend too much time together. He's divorce and i do not want to be another of his ex-wifes.
2007-01-11 13:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never dated anyone I worked with. But believe me, I have had plenty of crushes. I have also had many men try to get close to me. It is just my opinion from seeing other women date in the workplace, that this is something that just should not be done. It very rarely works out. And, when it does go sour, the workplace wont be all that great to work at. Can you imagine all the gossip? I myself have this saying " Dont poop where you eat"
2007-01-11 13:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by ColdTreachery 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had a huge thing for one of my old bosses. I just made sure to bring diff outfits to work, havta change before I leave busy schedule ya know haha Surely got his eye but never took it anywhere. There's enough people in the world and a situation like that is only bound to cause drama drama drama
2007-01-11 13:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and what a big mess!
One guy, we stopped dating each other and worse of all had to see him every day at work and I would get so jealous if any one else at work showed an interest in him.
Guy #2 - eventually got fired from our workplace and we continued to see each other, so that was cool. But we can't stand one another today.
Guy #3 - what a mess. I was so paranoid that every one was going to find out that we had "did" it and that alone drove me nuts. Eventually I ended up leaving that position and later on, he got fired.
2007-01-11 13:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Staci C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had a pair flings with superiors. fortuitously for me, they ended up getting fired for a variety of of causes unrelated to me. If it would not workout consultation it truly is uncomfortable, and if people locate out they assume that any promotion or payraise you get is a effect of dozing your way up the ladder, it truly is honestly a nasty acceptance. If that's a subordinate... i have under no circumstances achieved that one notwithstanding it can honestly come again in the way of sexual harassment regardless of if it grow to be thoroughly voluntary by using both activities. My suggestion will be keep it with coworkers of an same factor yet in a unique branch so that you gained't ought to be sure one yet another if it doesnt workout consultation.
2016-10-30 21:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a colleague for 7 years, and now we are just friends. But it was good while it lasted!!!!
2007-01-11 13:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by CSA_NP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back when I was a teenager, my boss kept making passes at me, and i had a huge crush on him. he was married with 2 kids, but we had an affair for like 4 years! until I moved away! it was awesome! the tension at work made everytime we f***ed all that much better!!
2007-01-11 13:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by lauralynne29 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not love but attraction, the thing is when you work with someone so much and get to know them it happens. why do you think so many celebrities get together? spending hours of your day joking with someone it just happens sometimes
2007-01-11 13:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋