yes i know it sounds mean but I just don't know how to! and it's driving me mad!
2007-01-11 13:00:51 · 9 answers · asked by Frozen Waffle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that he's a great guy, but you're not ready to get serious with one person.
2007-01-11 13:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, at such a young age, u shouldn't be involve in a BGR thing. Oh well.....! Since u want to break up with ur BF, tell him that u've been thinking long and hard abt the 2 of u for these few wks and u would like to be just friends with him. Reason is not becoz u dislike him or anything, but u just want to concentrate more on ur studies, families and have fun like any other teenagers at ur age. Thus, u do not want to be involve in any kind of relationships that will straint or even pressurize urself at this point of time. Also, tell him that u guys are still young and have a lot more to learn and think of for the future. U can still be friends with him and don't ever avoid him. Lastly, tell him that,along the way when u guys reach to a more mature age and if there's fate, who knows u 2 can still be together! Try that!
2007-01-11 21:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you mean that you don't know how to break up without hurting his feelings. The truth is you can't. Every breakup hurts, but the longer you wait, the worse it will be. I suggest that you do it in person, and be quick and firm. Just tell him that you're not interested in the relationship anymore. Don't tell him that you still want to be friends or that you're not ready for a relationship because he'll see that as an "in". Make it all about you and nothing he has done. However, if you fear that he will have a violent reaction to it, break up over the phone and don't have contact with him afterwards (no calls, email, or anything else). This actually applies to any break up. If he's a nice, normal guy, then obviously you can say hello if you see him, but don't take it any farther than that. Good Luck. :)
2007-01-11 21:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the tough part of playing the love game, If you think your mature enough to play it,you have to take the good with the bad, Summon up your courage and be honest with the guy. If you can't do that, your going to end up with some one you detest because you can't muster the strength to do what YOU want. This doesn't mean you have to be cruel.
2007-01-11 21:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 13.... why do you have a boyfriend? wait atleast until your 15-16. that way you can, with maturity, handle the stress of breaking it off with a guy. as far as the issus yoiu have now... just be honest and let him know that you don't want to be with him anymore. at this age... maybe you should do it in a note? might be easier. after all, notes was the way to go at this age.
2007-01-11 21:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by veruh.neicy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell him "we need to talk" and say what was wrong with the relationship, be polite, because guys could be very sensitive. Don't forget to say sorry, and ask if you guys still can be friends. if he says "no" be understanding, if he says yes, then hug him.
2007-01-11 21:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by ToTaLlY iN lOvE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take him aside and say u know wut ......... i think we should break up cause i'm just not into u ne more or w/e the reason is be honest its better that way and w/e u do don't let some1 do it for u its lame
2007-01-11 21:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that tou fell uncomfortable and you need your space. he should understand.......but then again i know that EVERYTHING is easier said then done. good luck!
2007-01-11 21:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by alwaysanswer337 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, just say dude!we are done,it`s over,so bug off leave me alone.
2007-01-11 21:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋