There is this Sophomore (I am a freshmen) who keeps flirting with me and talking about me when I walk by... He is a total pervert tho!!! He has slept with freshmen before... And he does all sorts of drugs and drinks. I am the perfect little model student. Not a speck of dust on my record. I get this problem where I get REALLY bad butterflies whenever I think about him. I can't keep thinking abouot him but also trying not to think aboiut him because he is such a sicko. HE has touched me (not like REALLY badly, just boobs and stuff like that, and that was on "accident") I want some advice on how to stop thiking about him. GOt any? OR what to do?
ANYTHING?!?!?!
2007-01-11 12:59:05 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a freshman too and I like a sophmore guy like you and he kept flirting with me and he was a player well one day I got tea-bagged in the head by him with his cute friend watching and ever since then never again
2007-01-11 13:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a total pervert according to you and you have solid evidence that he's slept with freshmen before, does driinks and drugs, 'accidentally' touche your boobs will yourself to stop thinking about him. All those are red flags for you if you both begin a relationship and a red flag says 'trouble ahead'; watch out. Take a different route to class and as you walk keep telling yourself 'I command myself, through my power of choice, to STOP THINKING about this guy. You can do it if you really want to. Everytime he comes to mind, engage you energies some other way, like go to a girlfriend's dorm to study. Meet people in whom you don't see these character traits. I sound judgmental but that's OK with me. You see, I have a happily married daughter and I want the best for her, all the time, every time
2007-01-11 13:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by Roy K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, when he touched your boobs, it was no accident. He just made it seem like it was. It almost seems that you did not mind this contact and it seems that you like his "bad boy" image. All I gotta say is watch out for him. You're a bit too young to be touched inappropriately and without invitation. My advice to you is to stay clear of him. He's bad news and disrespectful. He will change your "not a speck of dust" record to filth. Do not tarnish your reputation at such an early age. Do you want to be referred to as "that s l u t" for the rest of your high school days?
2007-01-11 13:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 21:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about the term badboys-they are BAD, just stay away from him, and make sure he don't "accidently" touch you again, cause he sounds like a really bad guy for you, especially if you're a good person. guys like that aren't for girls like you. you are better than that. just focus on school for now.
2007-01-11 13:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by *MaE* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like the Gwen Stefani song, "why do all the good girls like all the bad boys" (or word to that effect). But it's true. Good girls fall for bad boys. I don't know why. I can only tell you that it's normal. I did it. My friends did it. It will pass.
2007-01-11 13:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by Sharyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time he "accidently" touches you, punch in his ugly face! or be all like, "sorry I already have a boyfriend" and go get one of your boy cousins (if u have one that is like really macho or something, or just a guy friend that is all macho) and get him to walk around with u to scare the perv away!!!
2007-01-11 13:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by annabanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a speck? Get out the swiffer for him and a fly swatter for you!
2007-01-11 13:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by DORY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a guy do that to me too..it scared the c*** outta me ...i avoided him and tried to thin of else what when i see him i get butterfly's you never really stop just try and think of else what stick and talk with friends
2007-01-11 13:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid contact with him
ignore him as much as possible so like dont text him, message him back and definatly dont do it first cos it will look like your interested
with any hope if you refuse contact for so long he will get bored and just move onto another girl
2007-01-11 13:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by sparkles_x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋