The Principal of my school told he is tired of seeing me in his office?

Question

So I told him he shouldn't let teachers send me to the office for minor stuff like talking back, cuddling with boys, or dress code violations.

He sent a note home to my dad that I have to get signed, but dad is still at work and has not seen it yet. It says if there's ever a next time, I get out of school suspension and dad would freak if that happened. My principal keeps saying I should thank my lucky stars I am not his daughter because he would bust my butt. I was like "whatever" and then he chewed me out and gave me detention today and tomorrow.

I am 16 and this is sooo stupid.

No actually I am very cute, not like all these overweight girls down here. That's the thing I would think he would like it. I can't believe he has a wife.

Annamarie - Absolute worst answer I have ever seen. Whatever.

Musicman too, very poor answer.

Annamarie, for your information, they do allow paddling in the school down here and my dad has let them do it several times so I would not get suspended. It obviously did me absolutely no good, so you're answer of threatening violence is really pathetic.

Toomanycooks - I am sick of reading you too.

Well I hope you people are happy. I got in a LOT of TROUBLE. My dad was really POd he had to go to my school. He yelled at me in the principals office in front of the principal and vice principal. Then they asked me to leave and he talked with them for a long time and I came back in and he decided he was going to paddle me himself right there. I was like that is so gay you haven't done that in a long time. But he did and it was SOOO EMBARRASSING! and he made it hurt! After, the Vice Principal was like ok let's all sit down and she goes "except maybe Lori would rather not sit" like it was funny to her. My Dad says I have to write a letter of apology to the Principal, VP, 4 of my teachers, the librarian and 2 admin assistants and my friend's mom and get each signed and until they're all signed I am grounded. Then he says if he ever has to go there again they are going to suspend me, he is going to spank my butt until it's purple and then send me to military school. STINKS!

Answer 1

I agree... this is sooooo stupid

Answer 2

Try living in the real world with that attitude when it's police and not your principal! Think your suspension is bad, enjoy life behind bars you idiot! And school is a place to learn it isn't a late night club or anything like that, it's so funny how little and young you kids are, but you think you just know everything don't you, you will be the next one to be pregnant while still in school, or with AIDS or something else, just because you think you can do whatever you want, I would love to have a camera on you in the years to come, just to see how many slaps in the face you get from life with your stupid little slutty attitude, and of course, you will be one of those that blame all the reasons it happened to you on someone else and you will never admit that you were the one in the wrong all alone!

Answer 3

This is not stupid. Your principal is trying to let you know that you need to be making better choices. If you are unhappy about the consequnences (detention, being sent ot the principals office etc) start making better choices. The rules are in place for a reason--to prevent choas and help teach disciple and responsibilty. You should really be past this "whatever" stage at 16. Grow up.

Answer 4

you really should show your dad the letter and take your dententions. Right now school is boring, and what your doing doesn't sound like anything major, but once you become older you are going to wish you took school a little more serious. How about trying to go pay attention and get school over now instead of causing minor stuff. Start little go to school tomorrow, don't cause any trouble even minor and then see how many days you can go without a problem. The other problem is your little minor stuff is interupting other kids.

Answer 5

Sounds like you have some serious problems. In the real world when you have to get a job, no employer will put up with you talking to them in a rude manor, cuddling with boys on the job, or violating their dress code. Better get your act together if you plan to make it any where in this world. Beyond high school, people are not going to be so nice when putting up with that.
Your teachers are there to help you and your peers and you are making it difficult on them and you are robbing your peers of the vitale time that they need to be learning.
I feel sorry that your dad has to work all day and come home to the mess you create.

Answer 6

Unfortunately you're not going to like my answer very much. Talking back, is not minor. In school your teachers are your superiors, you shouldn't talk back to them just like you shouldn't talk back to your parents. Your teachers are trying to get you prepared for things you'll need when you are out of school. Cuddling with boys isn't going to help you learn anything and dress codes are there for a reason. When you have a job, you have to abide by the dresscode where you work. ....so it should fall that you should abide with your dress code at school.

You are at school for a reason...to learn things, not to run around the way you want to.

Like I said, you're not going to like the answer, but at 16 you thiink you know everything, but you don't. We've all been there.

By what you wrote, you actually sound like you have a bit of an attitude problem. The world doesn't and shouldn't revolve around you. When you are at school, you abide by those rules. Everyone else has to, so what makes you so special that you don't have to?

Answer 7

I must say...I am 27 now. At your age, I would have thought that was stupid, too. But now I see why those things arent appropriate at school. School is a place for learning...and teachers deserve respect and not someone talking back to them! Cuddling with boys isn't related to school either, so make that an after school event if that's your thing :) As for the dress code violations--those are the rules. They don't make rules to tick you guys off, they make them because things have happened that led to the need for them! kwim?

Answer 8

Ok, your not going to like this one. But it sounds like your spoiled, and disrespectful. Regardless of your age it dose not seem that your acting that way. My daughter is almost 18 and she would not get away with being disrespectful to her teacher no less the principal. What are you going to do when your an adult?? Disrespect people wont really get you too far. You still have a lot to learn.
I can hear you "whatever" but really think about it for a few your not far from being that adult.
Good luck sweetie.

Answer 9

I hope your dad beats the snot out of you, and slaughters you afterwards. You are the most spoiled kid I have ever come across.

And there was no reason to bring up "overweight people" Trust me. I guarentee you, they're probably better looking than you.

So "whatever", and thanks for the two points.

Edit: That's because you're one of those spoiled kids who thinks the world revolves around you. Running around smarting off to teachers and principals because they can't "spank you". You're just one of the many kids that make up the world these days, and I'm sick of it. I'm sure your dad will look at the note think of you being a little girl and saying "awww, you get your way", because that's what most parents would do. I agree with your principal. If you were my child, you would be picking your teeth up off the ground. You think "child abuse" I would definitely show you child abuse.
I suggest you learn to respect your teachers and principals because smarting off and saying "Whatever" is only going to get you to fail. You'll be spending longer in school then you want to be. And then you're going to continue down this path, you'll end up in jail, and I guarentee you, the police won't deal with you in the same way your principal does when you say "whatever" and tell them what to do.

I hope you get your act together.

Answer 10

Sure is. But welcome to the REAL world. And if you can't "go with the flow", keep your mouth shut, hands to yourself, & follow the dress code, -you WILL get suspended, in trouble with your Dad- and maybe not Graduate before you're 40. SO- them's your options. (And if you pick the WRONG ones, the "stupid" one will be YOU!). I know rules are the "pits". But we ALL have to live with them... & if you don't believe it, then visit your local jail or prison & notice how many of the patrons THERE are not too bright either...

Answer 11

u think u might know it all. but girl, you need to think about what you are doing now. Trust me, what you do now you will have to pay for it latter. And you may think that your dad or your principal is to hard on you. Well just to let you know..... I thanked my mom for every butt beating that I ever got. Just keep in mind your kids will be 10 times worse than what you are.