I am 14 and me and i my boyfriend have been going out a year I'm wonder in does he want to do me? what to do

Question

My guy friend talked to him and found out he did but now what?

Answer 1

You are way too young. I can't stress this enough. You don't want to be one of those fifteen year old pregnant chicks that drop out and are poor. if thats all he cares about, may be you should think a little more about this. You have plenty of time for that serious stuff later. I would suggest that you take advantage of being young. Don't grow up so fast. you'll regret it

Answer 2

Omgosh!!!! Just cuz a guy wants you to do it with him doesnt mean you gotta go and do it. ! WHO IS HE TO BE TELLING YOU HES READY!.... He obviously only hooked up with you for ONE thign and that was sex. I feel bad for you cuz he used you ......... and you didnt even notice it. And if you get pregnant be ready to be heart broken cuz he WILL leave you. Besides, after that! there is no more to talk about in a relationship.... cuz ya already seen each other and u will basically get bored once its all done. Ur gonna have sex then its gonna be over....you cant have sex for ever, once its over you guys wont know WHAT THE HELL TO DO. TRUST ME AFTERWARDS! So You need to save your virginity for someone you've truly know for more than a year and im not saying 2 years either! You shouldnt even be thinking about this. IF HE DOESNT ACCEPT YOUR OPINION THEN HE DOESNT RESPECT YOU, THEN YOU NEED TO MOVE ON FROM HIM! Just because ur dating doesnt mean you have to have sex. You're only 14.......and dont let him get into your head either. just remember this "Girls can get pregnant and guys cant" and what once that happens, do you think he's even ready to be a father come on now....he'd still wanna have fun and hang with his guy friends and evenually forget about u and the kid. So think twice before u go being all fast and stuff. So in the end which one is better..... having sex and then being miserable. Or waiting and be happy that you didnt. Cuz the younger you rush things the faster things end!

Case Closed!

Answer 3

Of course he wants "to do you". It is a normal thing for any male, after the age of puberty. The real question here is do you want to be done by him. Why do you have to give yourself to him? Next month or next year there will be someone else, there always is. If you have a mother or older sister, or an older woman that you can talk to get their opinions first. If you decide to favor him, as he is your boyfriend, insist that he always use protection. You don't want to start having babies, or any sexually transmitted diseases. He may be your first, but as word gets around he won't be your last.

Answer 4

All teenage boys want to do it, dear. And a lot of 14/15 yr olds would jump at the chance if offered, even if they're not ready.

Don't.
Even if you have gone out for a whole year, its not worth it. A lot more happens during and after "doing it" than you think. And it might not be worth it for you at this time.

This my sound preachy and cliche, but wait. Trust me, it's much better when you're older, know more of your body, have more confidence, and your partner is willing to "give" in bed.

Answer 5

That depends on you. I strongly recommend waiting for that, but the bigger question is, do you want to? Also, if he hasn't even brought it up to you, then why are you worried about it? He may know that you're not ready, so he's not even going to bring it up. He may not be ready himself. Sometimes boys feel pressure to act like they're interested in sex from other boys so they don't appear "soft". The only way to solve this is to talk to your boyfriend, and if you two do decide that you want to, I suggest you talk to a trusted adult about it first, someone you feel comfortable with. Good Luck

Answer 6

You're young. Don't worry about it. He might have just been talking guy talk. He might not want to! (not that there's anything wrong if he does or doesn't) Seriously, eventhough you don't feel so young, and this seems like a huge deal, it isn't. Don't worry about it. Think about life in the future. That's what you have to live for! Think about everything you will or can do! You don't need to worry about this, honestly.

Answer 7

Chances are if he has gone through puberty, he's interested. Not just with you but "IT" period. The only thing you need to focus on is YOU and what YOU are ready for. Be selfish about this because it's one of the most important decisions you'll make in your life. Don't worry about if he'll break up with you if you don't. There will always be "the one" who comes along later. Trust me, I've been there.

Answer 8

You're only 14, DON'T DO IT! You're too young and your first sexual experience should be when you are at least 18 and in love! What if you got pregnant? Would you, a child, be able to take care of a baby? Be smart and think it through. You're just too young. Hope I helped you understand.

Answer 9

As a mother, I would say don't do it. You are obviously not comfortable in just "doing it". Or you wouldnt be on here asking us. A relationship that goes on to that level must be stable and strong. You must trust eachother. To just say, should I do it because he wants to, is simply ridiculous. Why should you give up the most precious part of yourself just to satisfy one persons need (probably not even your own.). Why put yourself at risk for pregnancy. Or even ending up and unwed teen mother? Where is the glory in 2 minutes of "doing it". Think of all you would be giving up for just 2 minutes of pleasing your boyfriend. Hmm, do you think its an even trade? 2 minutes for 18 years of responsiblity?

Answer 10

if u ask me which u kinda did i would say no mariah cuz if i find out oh it's vasectamy time for somebody lol but no u are way too young u r 14 not long ago u were 13 and 12 and 11 so think about Mariah think!!!