Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months now and we still haven't kissed and I'm ready. Should I kiss him first or should I leave it up to him?
2007-01-11 12:50:52 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it.
Good Luck
2007-01-11 12:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been going out for 3 months then you r probably comfortable enough to give him a kiss. If ur not tho then just wait for him or hit to the fact that u want a kiss! But something like this happened with one of my ex-boyfriends, we went out for 5 months and we never kissed once! If it were me now i would have just kissed him!
2007-01-11 20:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a girl for 6 months and gidn't have the courage to kiss her and I was 22... I don't have beutiful memories about her, because I never kissed her.
I wonder what memories she has about me...
I wished it was easier for me, this was what I always thought about... Now I don't care about these things and about her...
So, YES, definetly make the step that you want to make, I'm sure, very much. Kiss him first, because 3 months means he can go on for another 3 months without kissing you and after that, he'll have the same thoughts like the ones that I wrote above.
I'm 23 now. I guess I have a little experience in my little life...
Good luck with whatever you choose to do, but remember that besides your decision, WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO, is to make it easy for him to get close to you.
2007-01-11 21:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by iDontKnowWhatToDo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously never heard that before.. ppl kiss after like 2nd date and you been going out with him for months! Well, go ahead talk to him and see what he thinks and then go from there! It really isn't a big deal these days you know but may be it is :)
2007-01-11 20:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah! it's ok for you to make the first move, go for it. when my boyfriend & i first kissed, we had been going out for about a month, and i was over his house. when i had to leave i huged him & leaned in to kiss him on the cheek, but he turned around & really kissed me :] i think it was really sweet, but if i had never tried to do anything first it wouldnt have happened. so take a risk, what have you got to loose?
2007-01-11 20:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, he probably wants to do it so much! but then can't bring himself to do it. start him off with a kiss on the cheek, and if he doesn't go to kiss you, then kiss him on the lips. my girlfriend, natalie (up there somewhere), kissed me on the cheek, and i've been meaning to do it so much that i turned around and kissed her on the lips as if by instinct. good luck! and have fun =)
2007-01-12 07:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by Konrad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omfg in 3 months have u guys like went to the movies or somthing ur such a noob
2007-01-11 20:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss him, I had to make the first kissing move with my ex too so yeah guys are wierd like that.
2007-01-11 20:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by PerfectlyinLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he hasn't kissed you yet. Maybe he has morals against it. Maybe he's not sure if you want him to. Just talk about it first. Don't plan it. Just talk about it.
2007-01-11 20:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by jdd's_kitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just kiss him for gods sake.
2007-01-11 20:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by Hi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋