why do men cheat and brake your heart?

Answer 1

this question has been asked a millon times not all guys cheat just the bad ones do. but lets face facts so do some women cheat. part of life. just need to pick the right guy or stay single but to say all guys or women cheat is wrong.....

Answer 2

Most men don't really know how to treat a women, because they were not taught the proper educate of relationships from their parents. They also look to examples of other men, maybe their friends. They might even be self centered. So they feel they can go through women like they are a dime a dozen.
Some men get tired of the same old thing, and start to look for something new and exciting. Not thinking about the consequences later on.
Most men are not matured enough yet, and they still act like a high school boy experiencing new things.
The bible says that a man is not a man until he is 30 yrs. old. I believe this is still true today. Most men mature at 30.
To all the men out there who are not in these categories mentioned, I say Thank You, and Kudos to you.
My husband is one of you good guys. You need to be praised for not following the so called norm of society.

Answer 3

Because he has not trained his heart and mind to understand the joy and peace of a monogamous relationship. He is not disciplined enough to focus on what is before him. He's bought into media hype and locker room lies that make him think he's a bigger man if he screws everything that moves.

Some people may think that "training" your heart and mind to be monogamous is wrong or that it takes something away from you. Think about it for minute. If you had a pet dog would you want a well trained dog that response to command or a stray hound that is going to pee on the rug and hump your leg? If you were in danger, would you want the protection of a highly skilled highly trained warrior(like a Navy Seal) or some drunk bar fighter?

Answer 4

Married very virtually 9yrs, never cheated on or will ever cheat on my substantial different. i visit in basic terms in basic terms supply you my the explanation why some human beings cheat on their friends be it male or female. a million. they're tire of the comparable sexual substantial different each and all the time. 2. they have fallen out of affection for the guy they're with. 3. They experience on my own and disconnected substantial different and circulate to locate somebody who will pay interest to them. 4. they have 0 admire for the guy they're with. 5. they're egocentric and pigheaded. 6. they have a intercourse stress one guy or woman won't be able to handle. 7. they're addicted to intercourse. 8. they do no longer have faith interior the marriage vows they spoke. 9. they could have been cheated on and seek for revenge by applying doing it decrease back to the different guy or woman. 10. they simply care approximately themselves. 11. There emotions are the only one that rely. 12. they have a difficulty loving the guy they have married. 13. problems with dedication and monogamy. 14. After childrens the spouse/GF is to fat and undesirable. 15. Have lost actual chemistry to the different guy or woman. those are the basics for a lot of human beings

Answer 5

Because men are stupid!!!! Not all men but it also boils down to what type of men you are interested in. Sometimes women can be just as stupid because they go out here and they pick the worst men they find and want to bring him home. So sista all I can tell you is that a man is only going to do what you allow him to do... point blank.

Answer 6

Because you keep picking the wrong one's who do that sort of thing. Not all men are the same so take more time to get to know the next one.

Answer 7

Of course, we all know that while men and women are both capable of cheating, it's often the guys who have the biggest problem keeping their belts firmly buckled. And we all know that no matter who it's with, why it's done, or where the after-hours canoodling takes place, cheating is-most of the time-the ultimate relationship death sentence. But instead of dwelling on what happens after the cheating takes place, one of the ways to perhaps prevent infidelity is by knowing a little bit about why men stray. I'm not offering them as excuses, merely explanations as to what happens in that brain (and other body parts) of his-in hopes that you might be able to prevent it. Here, the top reasons why men cheat:

To Fulfill His Biology: You know the old anthropological tale. A man's main job, besides killing the saber-tooth, is to spread his seed in order to ensure the survival of his genetic legacy. It's a man's biology to want to wander. Does that mean he should, or that he can't help it? Of course not. But it does mean that a man is going to have strong-extremely strong-biological urges to knock on the doors of neighboring huts. I have had this argument/discussion/conversation with dozens of men and women: Are men predestined to cheat? My answer is no, they're not-despite their biology. But often times, they do have to fight it. Especially after a pitcher and two shots of Jack.


To Get the Attention: News flash: Sure, some guys cheat because, well, maybe the sexual frequency has slowed a bit, and maybe hot-and-heavy happens at home about as often as Rob Schneider gets nominated for an Oscar. But the truth is that plenty of men who are having regular sex with their partner are also having sex with someone else. Why? Because cheating isn't just about the sex. Just as a woman who cheats may be seeking more affection than what she's getting at home, a man often cheats because he's seeking the attention that he no longer gets at home. Part of the allure of the mysterious woman isn't just to find out what she looks like naked; it's that the woman showers the man with flirtations, with seduction, with advances that make him feel like he's worthy of more than just fixing dents in the drywall.


To Get Out: I know lots of guys who simply don't have the strength to end it. They may try ("I'm just not happy"), or they may take other tactics to drive a woman away. A lot of guys simply have trouble breaking off relationships because they don't want to be perceived as that bad guy, the jerk, the insensitive lout who ended something good. So they tiptoe around the issue in hopes that she'll get so frustrated that she'll back out first. Well, if that doesn't work, then a man knows that the only way out is to commit the relationship sin that drives a woman away for good. It's not right, but it's what happens.


To Change Up His Play List: Think about what's on your iPod. You have your favorite songs you play over and over, but every once in a while, you're in the mood to hear something you haven't played in a long time. You don't need to hear it but once every month or so, but still, you appreciate the changeup. Relationships need to be like good iPods lists. You're comfortable with your routine and you like your routine, but it's always nice to change things up. What men really want in relationships (and what I suspect women also want) is to be able to take comfort in the routine of a long-term commitment, as long as there are some surprises that make it feel like a new relationship every once in a while. In order to keep the relationship strong, you've got to change the songs every once in a while. That goes for in the bedroom and out.

Answer 8

From experience I noticed that men who are fun-going, interesting, well-dressed, charismatic, well-mannered, self-confident and so on are the ones more likely to break my heart, plus, i let them (stupid of me). However, the low key kind of guy, nerdy looking, less attractive, and so on are more likely to be sincere and are less likely to hurt your feelings. Plus, never give yourself 100% to a man. Reserve some for rainy days. In the meantime, go out and enjoy yourself! (hey if guys are allowed to go to nude bars to mend their broken hearts, we girls should have some kind of hangout place to have fun too.)

Answer 9

I am still looking for that answer. I feel thats what a man was put on this earth to do. Its just in them half of them don't know why they do it ask them they can't tell you and if one can he is a lie, and one more thing is woman let them get away with it.

Answer 10

When it comes to the nature of sex.. the bottom line is that sex is a competition.. and no one wants you having more sex than they are. Think about it and ruminate about your jealous nature.

Men and women have competing agendas when it comes to sex. The male nature is to propagate his genes as much as he can and this means copulating with as many females as he can. The female agenda is different, she wants the best male so that she will have superior genetic offspring and to ensure their survival. She makes sure all his resources are devoted to her and her kids.