my b/f is always thinking things, i treat him like a king, and when i ask him to do something for me he doesnt want to do it. he feels as if he has to control me in everything i do from school what i wear, my friends i mean its bad. hes also a sex freak and i dont like that, hes never just nice, he never tells me sweet things or buys me flowers.i am always telling him he is beautiful, he has pretty eyes, i do everything. what do i do?????
2007-01-11 12:44:45 · 16 answers · asked by tootles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You deserve better. Find someone who will treat you right! There is someone out there, good luck!
2007-01-11 12:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put on your running shoes and get as far away as possible from this "dude".
You nor any other female needs to tolerate this kind of crap from anyone.
Marry the person, then you will really get the "Royal Treatment".
So, if you think its bad now just put your best foot forward with him. Chances are physical abuse will enter the picture along with the rest of the abuse you say he already portrays to you.
You can do better. Don't let him get full control over your mind or you will have a very tough time getting away from this abusive, immature, sex freak. Please don't let your emotions become your personal demolition tool that this creep will use to get to you.
You are a female, there is a decent guy out there for you. JUST TRY. Get away before it is too late...................
2007-01-11 13:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by HowFuzzyWuzee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there- done that! Chances are more likely that if he is a control freak and sex addict that he will abuse you. And if those are the chances, he stands another good chance of abusing drugs as well, and cheating. He is the kind of person that is inconsiderate to others except immediate family (probably, is he a momma's boy??) and doesn't truly care about your feelings. Everything is about him, him, him. Yes, you should DEFINATELY break up with this loser who is unappreciative of what he has and keep your distance from him! He will probably follow you, threaten to hurt you, etc. WHATEVER THE CASE GET AWAY FROM HIM!!! You deserve better.
2007-01-11 12:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jana Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to ask yourself, why am I with this guy in the first place?
You sound like a sweety, you deserve soo much better. But if you let him or anyone else treat you like this, its actually your problem.
There are lots of lovely guys out there that wouldn't even contemplate mistreating you. Or maybe it might be a good idea for you to have a little time out from relationships and grow a little as an individual!
Good luck honey
2007-01-11 13:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you recognize he is a control freak... as for leaving him .... let's just say the morgue is full of women that will never get that chance again. Control freaks tend to become abusive, mentally and physically over time...
So you decide
2007-01-11 12:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send me a photo and some secrets!
I will tell you right away!
Hey. Does he ever Dis you, beat you, pimp you out to his bidness buddies? Just how does he treat you. Maybe he thinks it would be silly to tell you that you are pretty, He likely assumes that you already know that.
Mind you. If he is absolutely controlling there are likely others around who would very simply off him for a steep price.
2007-01-11 12:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by U-98 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do just the opposite for a month!stop saying nice things and stop kissing his ungrateful butt he knows your gullable and he thinks you have a low self asteme and he is using it against you!make him aware that he isnt the only guy on the planet with a penis and he isnt the only guy your interested in!(lie)P.S. or maybe you should find someone that does appreciate your sweet words and move on because it sounds like you have an ungrateful asshole on your hands!pardon the pun!P.S.S watch out for the abuse soon to come to a home near you!
2007-01-11 12:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by kevin b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 21:05:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He kinda sounds like an a$$! If you really love him though you should tell him how you feel and see if that changes how he acts towads you. If it doesnt then he doesnt deserve you!
2007-01-11 12:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl leave him and fast my stepfather was a control freak and he would beat on me and my mom. your b/f is on the same path get out of that relationship ASAP. For your own protection!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-11 12:58:50 · answer #10 · answered by a27griese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋