Have you ever said some really mean, rude things to the person you love because you were scared of how much you loved them or you missed them and didn't know what to do about it? What did you say and what happened?
2007-01-11 12:41:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I avoid people who are interested in me because I'm scared. I was in a three year relationship and now that it ended I have trust issues. I don't trust anyone. When guys ask me out, I always turn them down. Also one of my friends was in a two year relationship with this guy (also my friend). He was madly in love with her. She hasn't been hurt but she's not the type to committ. She tried to dump him in a subtle way but it didn't work so she just said "I don't care about you. Leave me alone. I don't want to have anything to do with you." That same night I was on the phone with him trying to stop him from jumping off a bridge.
2007-01-11 12:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was in a relationship that ended abruptly. It was beautiful while it lasted and everything was perfect then one day. it was just over. I actually wrote a lot of songs about her. They're in my blog on http://www.myspace.com/reservations_for_two but that's not the girl in question.
After the one I just mentioned I thought I was ready to move on and started seeing this other girl. Things were good and we had a lot of fun. Then things got really serious and I wasn't ready for that yet. She was talking about me moving in and us getting married and what not. That wasn't happening. I told her that she needed to slow down and that she was moving too fast and that I needed time to reassess my situation and figure out what I want. I put it politely the first time. When she started getting upset and mean about the whole thing I told her "If you keep pushing me I swear to god I'll ******* tear you apart" (emotionally). She understood me that time. That, other than the lyrics written about my ex is the worst thing I have ever said or thought about someone.
2007-01-11 12:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by forgiving_madison 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not exactly same circumstances but I hurt a girl friend because I was not ready or totally healed following my divorce. I got scared of getting back into what I had been involved in before so I created meanness to move her away from me. In the end I lost more than she did but I was not ready for long term at that point
2007-01-11 12:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was hurt badly and realized that the person i love the most was not honest with me. So i was crying and screaming and i all i remember i said you are a LIAR, a cowered, a trash, a dirty animal , have no feeling or self-respect, from now on you mean nothing to me , you are DEAD. Then i said i am not going to punish you or take revenge from you, but i am asking GOD to give me my revenge from you . I wish i see you one day HURTING and SUFFERING the same way i am hurting and suffering right now and i wish that GOD will take all the loved ones from your life and punish you for what you did to me.
2007-01-11 13:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by broken heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going out with this guy and we had been hanging out for a while, no sex or anything and he made the fatal mistake one night of telling me he loved me.
I freaked!!!! Grabbed my purse and keys and got the hell out of there and didn't talk with him until many, many years later. At which point we did hook up and went the whole nine yards and actually had a great relationship of about 5 years. So he eventually got over his hurt behind my running out on him.
2007-01-11 12:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by Staci C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, good question!
Actually, I've done it twice. The first time was with my boyfriend back in my Sophomore year. He was really cute, so I felt really insecure being with him, and this one Puerto Rican girl would stalk him, and I was worried that he might actually like her, but he would tell not only me, but his friends and mine that he wasn't attracted to her at all, and that he really liked me and wish I could see that. And eventually we broke up over my insecurities, plus he was moving to Puerto Rico. He moved back to the U.S. a year after, and we are still cool with eachother. Last Year February is when I met the sexiest Pakistani guy, lol. My friend Usman, and even though we had a casual thing going on, there were times we talked about us being together. I never felt so secure about myself til being with him. He loves to see me naked, he loves to be daring in bed, he's a great person and very easy to talk to. I got so afraid when he told me he loved me one day, because I didn't want to ruin what we had by being so insecure about him leaving me if we were to get together. He moved to New York City to work, and we still talk. Right now, I'm dating this wonderful Indian guy Malik. He fell in love with me before even seeing what I look like. We met in Philadelphia and he kissed me on my lips so many times, and we started dating since, and he's my sexy Scorpio, haha!
Krazy Libra
2007-01-11 12:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES there was this very hot ,nice girl that liked me i was ticked of at the moment and she complimented me i tried so hard to fight it back but the anger came through and she never spoke to me again=[
2007-01-11 13:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by SirNovajr. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told the man I love to phuck off, and it ruined our friendship. It wasn't until afterwards I realized I said it out of fear of losing our friendship. Isn't it weird how it works that way?
2007-01-11 12:44:42 · answer #8 · answered by T Time 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i didnt say anything mean but he was kinda upset cause i wasnt really sure about my feeling for him and he really loved me. he was hurt but i talk to him about it and he inderstands and he said he would wait till im really sure i love him....i am and im really scared to tell him but yea thats what happened
2007-01-11 12:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by nixsie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,
when I was in highschool my girlfriend was a beautiful
African American, and since my father didn't approve I didn't take her to the prom. I have always regretted that decision.
2007-01-11 12:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋