please help me to get a girlfriend. i dont know what is with me that i have asked out about 5 girls out in the past 4 months and they all have said no and the reason they give is that i am to ugly to be their boyfriends. i dont know what to do all my friends have girlfriends but me i am just a loner. almost all the girls at school think of me as the nerd shy kid. advice me on what should i do to get at least a friend that is a girl. thank you.
2007-01-11 12:37:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am in 9th grade and i am 15
2007-01-11 12:42:17 · update #1
u should make dem feel comfertable....let dem lyk da inside of u
ReeRee
2007-01-11 12:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, usually a couple likes eachother and goes out a couple of times before they're considered "boyfriend and girlfriend". you're approach to the problem, aka asking out about a girl a month, is not going to work...if anything, it's going to hurt you, because you get the reputation of being desperate. that's the end of the negativity.
having the reason be you're too ugly is REALLY lame, and be glad you were saved from being their boyfriend...if you're a good guy, they truly don't deserve you. you need to start with a friend that's a girl at first, and don't even start the friendship with her as a potential gf in mind. as a girl, nerd shy guys are usually ideal friends because they're often not as two-faced as other girls or popular guys, so there's a plus for you. if there's a big test coming up for a hard class, ask a smart girl if she wants to study for it with you, or join a club that has girls who share the same interests as you. as long as you're kind and considerate of others, girls will notice you as a good friend, and then you can get your party started...
Good luck! XD
2007-01-11 12:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a social guy? Do you have problems making friends? if you do then finding a GF will be slightly harder as you obviously lack social skills. Dont worry as you can learn these and you can start being social as long as you read material on it and then practice.
I suggest you start being social, not just with women but with men and other people around you. If you become social, chances are you will be able to start speaking to women you find attractive. You will be able to attract women and make them your GF.
As for looks, women are not visual beings, as long as you are not obese and physically disfigured you got nothing to worry about. So if you look average (beauty is in the eye of beholder) you can still attract attractive women.
There is a great e-book that explains it all in detail you can read.
it will explain how to meet women, attract women and date women.
More importantly it will make you become the better of you.
Ill post the URL for it down below.
2007-01-11 12:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look dude.. first off if you think you look nerdy change. to how you like it .there just girls who probably want the perfect man. my guy is nerdy and a jerk but hey whatever. maybe pick up some jokes start hanging around some chicks with your friends. get your friends chicks to put a good word in for you. express your self ant like an emotional girl but say stuff that is cool . the two fingers like rock on . or some thing.
dude i hope this helps
2007-01-11 12:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont freak out ur probably not ugly their just scared of saying yes they dont want another broken heart. like i have right now. dont take any of what they say personal take ur time in getting a gf wait for that specail one she'll come around and you wont be able to let go of each other. it will be like magic. and when you find that specail girl no matter what hold on to her no matter how hard things can get. cuz u know it s love that keeps u together.
2007-01-11 12:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by crunch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the pen protecter in your shirt pocket,find you some new clothes bring your self up and above your friends and you will be noteced always stay a step ahead of every one,find out what every body else is talking about and learn about it but dont over do it nobody likes a know it all eather.once you start to stand out the chicks will come to you.
2007-01-11 12:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by bstcrpntr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel! It can get lonely out there ( No I'm not a nerd any imma little shy and most guys like me) just be yourself girls will come in time. Don't change yourself for anyone. All i did was wait and now guys are jumping on me from all directions. they just won't leave me alone! ( I have so may boy troubles its sick!) There will be girls who like you ,there might be! Ya Neva Know!
2007-01-11 12:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by Candice 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you don't want to be with someone so shallow. Try and find people who share your same intrests. They may not be the prettiest, but if they make you happy that's all that counts.
2007-01-11 12:42:18 · answer #8 · answered by wutsup? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself, but don't be yourself. Confused yet? Be bold, be confident, be funny, these 3 qualities are the best you can use to attract someone and to make them see you as a potential relationship.
2007-01-11 12:47:50 · answer #9 · answered by Cory W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh im sorry thats sad i hope youre not ten or something well i like when boys touch my hair it says they like me and it kinda cute i also like it when they stare at me girls like attention you dont look to ugly but it is a cartoon im not sure.... just play it smooth sooner or l8ter youll meet your dream girl good luck xoxoxo
2007-01-11 12:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by HKlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since all the girls think ur nerdy change ur appearnce flirt around more...Girls love complements :)
2007-01-14 10:07:49 · answer #11 · answered by x0xJenny93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋