alright, me and my boyfriend broke up mid-septemter. we kept liking each other for like 2 weeks, not liking each other for 2 weeks, liking each other again and ya you get the point. We had had hooked up once, and we were about to start dating again, but i had told him i didnt want to. but now, i like him again, but i dont think he likes me. I cant stop thinking about him, do guys ever think about there ex's? We talk almost everyday since we have a class or two together, and we still flirt every once in while.
so what do i do now? Does he think about me, even if he doens't like me? what can do to make him want me again?
thanks boys :)
2007-01-11 12:30:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes.. if we liked them a lot and didnt want to lose them then yes. if we have found someone better then no
2007-01-11 12:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by jake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So like what? Are you just yanken' on the chain to see if the dog is still on the other end? Is this the famous who rejected who syndrome. The whole make up to break up, except that now you are the rejector instead of the rejectiette. If you don't get along then move along! The only other choice is for you both to torture each other the rest of your lives.
went through similar. Yes I still think about my son every day. But there is no way I would ever let myself be in the same city/ country/
whatever as his Mom. It sucks, yes but not as bad as it did with HER!!!
2007-01-11 20:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by U-98 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok well guys do think about their ex's...belive it or not. if u listen to rock..thats what Hinders "Lips of an Angel" is about. But anyway sif he still cares for u the way he did and hasnt gone out of his mind with all the on and off stuff and wants to get back with u..im sure he is. Maybe he does want u back.maybe he doesnt. Thats something u will have to confront him on. cause i dont know what ur ex is thinking , just cause i am a guy doesnt mean i know his exact thoughts. but if U are still interested in this kid then talk to him about it..make sure u get thru to him that u do still like him and maybe he secretly at the time wants to go back out with u but is unsure what u think...its always worth a try...
2007-01-11 20:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself I'm going through the same situation i don't know how old you are but if he cares anything about you he's thinking about you and if you talk i just found this out if you guys broke up and you still talked there is still something there if it wasn't the talking would be every once in a while let him know how you feel honesty is key i know from experience be straight up with him good luck
2007-01-11 20:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by footballplaya263 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is a woman which I love like totally
other than maybe 2 hours, I spent like 75 hours with her, paid ones
she is just amazing, the first time I saw her, I thought , that was the the best massage I ever had, and she is gorgeous, kind of dumb though
the second one, I found out she wasn't dumb, then I found out she is like 10x as smart as me even, and I AM smart enough to know that
and she's kind, and fun
I love her !!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think about her most of the time.
Its all good, whatever, I hope she isn't gonna ask me to die for her or something, I might have to I figure. Yeah , she IS that amazing.
2007-01-11 20:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
basketball with relationship bouncing back and forth. Make up your minds or let it go. I would be sea sick by now all that rocking the boat and sick of the game with it. Sorry thats just me though.
I do not think of my ex's because when they go I decided to move on meaning if it is the end its done, no looking back for the very reason you asked this question too much wondering. But I am good friends with 2 of them so not bitter.
2007-01-11 20:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some guys don't stop thinking about ther ex's. If you REALLY like him again then do whatever it was that made him like you in the first place. Otherwise, move on. Only hook up with him if you think it will work.
2007-01-11 20:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by bob 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i still love all my ex-es. But i do not do flashlight-relationships... as i take from your writing it doesn't bring you good as well. read my question about my recent ex, please. Gives an insight in a weird situation that is probably not quite yours, but might clear things up?
making him like you ... he does think about you, but making him... think being honest about what you feel and felt, and being a bit more clear on how you want things to be and for how long will make it easier... from my experience, things being difficult all the time make a guy loose his "appetite" Don't know if you made his life difficult by breaking up often, of threatening with that? Make his life easy, might be the best thing to do.
ur.. i dunno. Am in the middle of quite something, maybe i am bullshitting.
Good Luck,
Dr Aram
2007-01-11 20:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Aram, from Holland with love 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop chasing after him.
Yes, guys think about ex girl friends, a lot.
If you are on again, off again, perhaps you should find someone else. Who needs all that tension?
Hope this helps.
2007-01-11 20:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think about my ex's all the time and im sure if you say you want to hook up again he will say yes
2007-01-11 20:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just talk to him and say:
"Hey can we get back to being nice with each other again, I would like that, would you like that?"
Cheers, wish you all the best, go for it!
2007-01-11 20:37:12 · answer #11 · answered by Gem of Wisdom 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋