there is this one boy who has been my friend for 7 years. On christmas (also my birthday) he came to my house and everything was fine untill he kissed me. After that I asked him why he did that and then he seemed really sad. Then he started avoiding me and blushed when I tried to talk to him then ran away. What is wrong with him? i forgive him for what he did and I still want to be friends. help would be nice thank you. ^_^
2007-01-11 12:29:25 · 18 answers · asked by Happy:) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
from what everyone says it sounded like I rejected him... but I didn't... did I?
well i have to add that I didn't mean to rejet him, i just asked why he did it... at my house..in front of everyone...9_9
2007-01-11 12:43:29 · update #1
also i am not sure if the feeling i get aroud him is just feeling safe cause he's a loyal friend or more...
2007-01-11 12:46:06 · update #2
also i am not sure if the feeling i get aroud him is just feeling safe cause he's a loyal friend, or more...
2007-01-11 12:46:28 · update #3
Yes you are having boy trouble! but its not that bad. I can tell from the kiss and the frequent blushes that he likes you. But he just doesn't know what else to do about it. If you like him kiss him back ( that would make his day!) if you don't tell him. But make sure you apologize for the way you reacted to the kiss because how you said " why did you do that" hurt him and now his scared that you might not wanna be friends any more and he might have ruined the relationship!
2007-01-11 12:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Candice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't u see he likes u and from what I've read u like him 2 so whats the point my best friend turned into my boy friend and every things fine. he kissed me like ur friend and any time i tried to talk to him he avoided me 2.try to get him some where he can't runaway and make him talk 2 u.he's tired of being just friends he wants to move it to the next level but the question is do are u?be sure about ur answer u might just regret it 4 the rest of ur life
2007-01-11 20:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by `Avenging~ghetto~bird` 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's embarrassed. He put himself out there - you shut him down, and now he's sorry he ever did it.
Just talk to him and tell him you would never want to lose him as a friend, but that you don't have romantic feelings for him. Then do him a favor and try to hook him up with another chick.
2007-01-11 20:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Euro Cop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he kissed you he believed it was the right time and that he thought hey we've been friends for a while now maybe we can be more and when he did that and you asked why he thought that you were mad so he is trying to avoid you because he is embarrassed
2007-01-11 20:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by footballplaya263 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is embarrassed. Probably he has very thin skin. So when you did not respond the way he though you would respond to the kiss, he got really embarrassed. Try writing to him if he cannot face you.
2007-01-11 20:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you and you got mad at him so now he is hurt. Maybe you should discuss the relationship between you two and come to an understanding but be nice and listen to each other about your feelings.
2007-01-11 20:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by kws504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lose any sleep over this Hes trying to put you on a guilit trip just be cool Rick
2007-01-11 20:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by rickkritcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its the way u said it to him u probably hurt hsi feelings.. tell him u are sorry but the kiss was unexpected
2007-01-11 20:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yesssssss..... this is how it all starts ....now u ill start thinking abt this guy all time and same will that guy.....and later u know what hapns...''am sure this relationship will loose its value u both had b4, cos now u both hav guilty concious, develped, either u ill lose ur friend or it will be an unhealthy relationship...anyway sorry.
2007-01-11 21:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by bronson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he has an intense crush on you. and hes realized, after kissing you, that you dont like him that way, which would of crushed him. possibly you were leading him on at some stage? try and pull him aside, and explain to him that you only want to be friends, without hurting his feelings....
2007-01-11 20:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by Chloe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋