to become intimate with my guy friend? To make along story short, I met him last yr. we lost contact with each other and we recently been back in contact we each other. My attraction is very strong. I mean VERY strong for him but I recently ended a on again off again "relationship" with a guy a month ago. BUT the urges that I have for the new guy are growing stronger and stronger everyday. Fortunately, we haven't be alone together - yet.
What to do? What to do?
2007-01-11 12:28:53 · 2 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no set time to be intimate with somebody. it depends on the two people. A new relationship/friendship can be great. But I think you should wait a while and spend some time with him. Just talk, go to a movie and hang out for a while. Really get a connection with him. You don't want to blow a good thing by going to fast. See how he feels and learn about one another. Good luck.
2007-01-11 12:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the answer before me. Get to know him more would do you good. Keep him interested, and show him you're interested but don't jump to the first chance you'll be alone together (if you could hold it). The key is not to think of him in intimate way. I'm sure he got lots of other qualities that could make you stay alone and do other stuff. You don't want him to think you'll jump to any man available because you just broke up with another guy. You want him to think you really like him and you're attracted to him in every way, not just in intimate way. So, just have fun getting know each other now, hang out. When the good time come, it would be much a better time when you're both sure that this attraction is mutual and real.
2007-01-11 21:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by Akai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋