So, I'm seventeen, a junior in high school, and I've had a very intense crush on this sophomore for at least a year and a half now. He barely knows me and we virtually have never talked to each other, but I'm so atracted to him. I think about him all the time.
Anyway, my problem is deciding whether or not I should let him know how I feel. I'm worried that if I do tell him I'll be rejected and mortified, but if I don't, I'll just continue to live in pain. I've tried to "move on," but I found out that doesn't work. I even have a boyfriend, but I don't love him, and still find myself thinking about this guy all the time.
What do I do?
2007-01-11 12:14:08 · 4 answers · asked by Kaitie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you already found out that move on didn't work, so i'm sure you need to try to tell that guy how you feel, yeah maybe at the first just be a friend, i'm sure by the times he will feel how you feel even if you are not telling him... and he will know that you attracted with him..
it worth to give any try... if you never try, surely you will never find out and you will never get it.. but if you try you have the chance..
of course you need to tell your boyfriend these situations that you are not happy with him.. truth is hurt but it will more hurt if it goes longer and longer...
good luck baby..
2007-01-11 13:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first thing is first, you don't have to love your boyfriend in order to have one, but you do have to care for him and like him, hense why he is your boyfriend.
If your not intrested in him like that then dump him.
Now about the guy you do like, after your single, then the best way is to ask him to go get a cup of coffee or go get lunch... since your in junior high, it's probably better you ask him to go get a cup of coffee. After that I'm sure he will notice you and be intrested, maybe even ask you out.!
Good luck!
2007-01-11 20:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by soccerpsychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your current boyfriend. It's not fair to either of you to continue the relationship if you don't care for him. As for the "other" guy, you'll never know unless you try. The fear of rejection is worse than rejection itself..
2007-01-11 20:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like to me like you need to break up with your boyfriend because you obviously don't care that much about him and the poor kid is going to get hurt by you more than he has to.
Now just suck it up and tell this crush of yours that you like him. Your right leg isn't going to fall off and your dog isn't going to die....so what's the worst that can happen?
2007-01-11 20:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by KitterKat2310 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋