I am currently living with my fiance' and we have a nurse that comes out to take care of his grandfather that lives here. She is a small little thing and very flirty. Well my fiance' says he doesn't like her but he always smiles when comes around and I even caught him starring at her butt one day even his youngest sister said that he makes himself avaliable for when she is around. He laughed about having the house all to themselves yestorday.. he says he doesn't like her or has the hots for her so then why does he act this way? He jumps fast enough to fix her car but took a week to get a head light bulb into my car so plz some one help me..
2007-01-11 12:12:43 · 16 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Plant a condom in the house and ask him what it is doing there. Sound pissed but dont accuse him of anything. Men are pretty dumb. he will most likely come clean.
Or...if you really want to know. Just take two or three regular tape recorders and place them around the house. They are much more discreet than video cameras and less expensive. Make sure to place them near couches or under beds, etc. make sure that nothing is blocking the mic part so that you can get everything. When you get home and you are in private, just press play and then fast forward. That way you can just stop if you hear anything suspicious. If nothing comes up, you can rerecord several times on a tape.
2007-01-11 12:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by lestergal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know every girl will hate me for this but....you should read "The Rules!" The only way to turn his attention away from her and onto you is to make yourself less available. I know that's kinda hard to do because you live together but try to throw some mystery into it. If you have a ritual that you guys always do (like watch a show together), tell him the next time that you made plans. Don't go into detail and disappear for that time. It will drive him crazy wondering where you are and what you're up to. It will also shake his idea that he so obviously has you regardless of his conduct. The only way to make a man pay attention when he acts like that is to show him that you don't need him and that you have other options. Make him remember what a great catch you are! Trust me, this works every time!!
2007-01-11 12:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by answergrrl3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!!!!!!!!!! JACK ***! if he acts this way when ur his fiance, than imagin how he would act if ur married. don't go through with the wedding because u'll just endup hurt!! If the nurse wanted 2 sleep with him, he'll do it! Run before it's 2 late. What will happen when you have kids with that guy? This is the first sign that he's not ready to commit!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-11 12:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very happy with my relationship of 6 years and I look at other bums too. Don't get me wrong, I am on your side, but you could also ask yourself if you're a little bit insecure? Most people in loving relationships are a tiny insecure with some issue in their lives. May it be anything petty!
Why don't you play at his game and do what he does. Let him catch you having a quick look at a fit guy's bottom?
2007-01-11 12:19:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to seriously talk with him about this. for a long long time. start an argument if necessary, then he'll really open up. anger makes truths come out easily.
also, talk to this nurse about the issue. and if she says she would never fall for him, even if he did like her you'd be safe.
2007-01-11 12:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though he's entranced by this little thing and she's turned his head. You might just let him know that you know that and are not very happy nor impressed by his actions. I'd be rather leery about this fella.
2007-01-11 12:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling him on something he hasn't done yet.
It shows you have a lack of trust in your fiance.
If you don't have proof and if he says there's nothing there then leave it. Poking around in things that aren't any of your business isn't right.
2007-01-11 12:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have real love with your fiance please leave this relationship for the time being, and give your attention to your carrier. One day (vrery soon) he will be back without any nurse and you will be there for nursing to him.
2007-01-11 12:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by rajesh t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-11 12:15:19 · answer #9 · answered by Wet Willie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey if your man is going to cheat he is going to cheat no matter what. Be glad if he does do it before you get married. Plus there is the trust factor.
2007-01-11 12:17:21 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋