playing hard to get? she is nice to me and once i start talking to her, she ignores me and flirts with other guys in front of me. and then when i ignore her, she is nice to me again.
when does this end and what do i do about it?
i told her that i like her in a christmas card i hand made for her btw.
also, it would help a lot if you guys looked at my most recent question besides this in my profile.
thanks a lot for your help, it means a lot to me
2007-01-11 12:10:46 · 16 answers · asked by Ratchet 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also the thing that really gets me is when after she acts all ignorant to me and i just totally ignore her, she trys to be all friendly and acts as if nothing has happened after she really hurt my feelings
2007-01-11 12:12:33 · update #1
awwww poor guy! you sould probably just ask her why she is ignoring you and that you are sorry for ignoring her and tell her that you really like her and that you want it to be cool between you guys. she might not even realize that she is ignoring you?? or she might just htink that you dont like her as much now and she is trying to make you jealous. I know alot of my friends and even I do it sometimes. It's like this thing that we think if you are jealous of other guys that like us then maybe you will like us more. It's stupid, i know, but us girls just kinda do it anyways lol but just confront her kindly about the whole situation, and who knows, maybe you might go out sometime??
hope it all works out!
2007-01-11 12:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by InlovewithJESUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Rat, Sorry you got your feelings hurt, you sound like a nice guy. I think she is just playing hard to get. Just stop her in her tracks. Come right out and tell her you would like to spend some time alone with her. You don't know if you don't ask. You are being way to subtle with her. Some people you have to come on a little stronger. Not a lot but a little. If that doesn't work then come on a little stronger yet. If that doesn't work, forget it.
2007-01-11 12:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's trying not to hurt you and so she doesn't want to bluntly tell you she doesn't like you. She'd rather flirt with other guys in front of you so you can get the hint. That's one possibility. Another one could be that she likes you but she's trying to make sure you really do like her and so she's giving you something to chase. I say you should talk to her about it, and tell her that if she has something to say to you, it would make things much easier if she simply came out and said it bluntly. Tell her you don't understand the hints she is trying to give off.
2007-01-11 12:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Say She Likes You. She just has a reason why she can't or won't say. You might say its a tease but some girls call it fun. (Like Me!) But for me I do this to see how far you would go to get me and if your really interested in me. Because for me when i'm nice to anybody they want to take advantave of it so now i'm mean and now everyones nice. (weird isn't it) But she likes you just get her by herself and ask her to go with you and if she says no annoy the HELL out of her. I like it when guys do that.
2007-01-11 12:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by Candice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask her if she is bi polar? does she keep friend for very long, or does she have on/off friendships.. she might also be manic depressive, does she have mood swings that cannot be explained by any thing that is going on in reality?..she might just be a b**** playing games with you because you let her.
Also the next time she tries to mess with you, you should tell her that you would like her to cuddle your testicals.
2007-01-11 12:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no be counted how a lot someone wanders interior the streets on the right of the day, he returns living house. warm for couple of minutes yet to marry attractive on the right of the day. that is a compromise. handmade lentils in case you try menu from outdoors you'll drown in soup.
2016-11-23 12:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her> She's playing with your feelings. There are more nice And well mannered girls out there!
2007-01-11 12:14:28 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I deal with the same thing with one of my guy friends. It depends do you really like her or just kinda like her. But if you kinda like her just drop it, If she can't take a hint (like the chistmas card) she's definatly not worth it.
2007-01-11 12:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by mb13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is playing a game with you. Sorry, but drop her, or she will probably hurt you.
2007-01-11 12:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about her, do not whine about her , get a life, i am sure theres is someone more caring and start respecting yourself more i dont think u should allow any one to treat u so badly
2007-01-11 12:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by anjoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋