I met a guy and fell in love truly with him.I was addicted to him and him to me For 4yrs..He moved in with me we did everything together. He had two boys and they adored me and my kids adored him and we all lived as a happy family..Then whenever i didnt say something right or against his opinion he would call it an argument.So every couple of months he would leave me then return say how sorry he was ask me to marry him go on fabulous holidays and all would be fine. Then we would have a difference and he would go again come back cry beg for forgiveness propose and then leave.This went on for 4 years till he never came back.He never contacted me again but still remained in contact with my kids......Anyway 2 months later he met someone, i was gutted. He left her after 2 months then moved in with her and her kids then moved out and left her,went back, asked her to move in with him then kicked her and her kids out and made them homeless then took her to vegas.What kind of guy is this?????
2007-01-11 12:06:38 · 14 answers · asked by itsallgood 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a definite "loser" to me who has a huge problem with commitment.Also a bit of a control freak too.You're probably a lot better off without him although it's not good that the children got dragged into everything.
2007-01-11 12:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by M M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds so confused and messed up, perhaps he had no stability in his life at an earlier age and this is the only behaviour he knows? Then again he could just be a 'user' it seems both you and his new partner have let him get away with it for a long time and because he has been able to keep this behaviour going without someone putting a stop to it, it has now become the 'norm'...It now seems natural behaviour to him because no one has stood up and made him take stock of the situation. On that note i just want to say don't ever get back with this guy, he's not worth the upset and misery to you or your children!
2007-01-15 16:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by Chill_Out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like someone with quite a few problems who needs some intense therapy. He can't take alot of stress and looks at any disagreement as personal. I would say this person is either unreasonable or mentally ill, and that is where these problems come from. That is why he reacts like he does to everything, possibly bipolar? Schizo with the irrational thinking. I did not say psycho or loser. I had an ex who would get mad at me simliar to this, and then call back to scream an apology, then hang up one me before I could answer. He was 100% bipolar.
2007-01-11 20:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well sounds to me like he has a lil bit of a dissposition!
id say this fella is iether in need of some time on his own and to grow or is a complete lost corse!
well now here is what we do with lost corses!
first of all you need a a cellar or some other kind o sound proof building preferably under ground. it has t be furnished with only one chair (you wont have time t sit down yourself).. then you jus have t lure him there tell him your picking the kids up or summat or your a lil bit hot for him and you know a place while on a drive!
then once youve got there oh and youl need a buckit of tar or pitch(to seel the wounds)
now once you have him srcured to the chair proceed t gag him then with a very sharp knife cut through the skin around the knuckles on his toes and snap the bone cut anything else thats stops the toe from being removed then dip in hot tar or pitch t stop the self obsorbed (mmm its a swear word) from bleeding t death you dont wan him diein on ya too soon!
once youve taken off all his toes proceed to the fingers once theyve been removed super glue a bottle of water to each hand secure him safely so he cant fall over then leave him over night t think about the consequences of his actions over the past few years! (youll probably want t pull his tongue out at this point you know jus so he dont accidently get some help after all he hasnt helped you any!)
then in the morning return t him say "youve been a very naughty boy havent you?"
when he nods you are now free to ruin his boyish good looks wi whatever is to hand after all he has jus agreed he deserves it!
once dead burn the body grind boans and teeth scatter were ever you see fit and go about your business youve put alot o work into this man with no thanks so now off t do summat you enjoy with no worries!
there that should help!!!
2007-01-12 15:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by lilman 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first off the guy is definitely no LOSER... he seems to keep WINNING women like you back and PSYCHO is more descriptive of women who want him in their life to continuously disrespect and emotionally abuse them... my suggestion is for you to find a good counselor or call Dr. Phil and get help for yourself... it sounds like your self esteem has hit an all time low... (Geeze - and you felt "gutted" when he left you? Good luck on the next monster who you let into you and your children's lives).
2007-01-11 20:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by wonderful1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the kinda guy ur lucky to be well rid of i dont know how u put up with him for as long as u did. if anybody even attempted that on me and my kids i wouldn't have let him back the second time let alone keep taking him back over and over again. i would have hunted him down and drowned him in a bath of hot pish... count ur blessings and move on chick...good luck
2007-01-11 20:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a asshole and want his way and he wants to controll everything. That sounds like my boyfriend of 8 years. We would not be together if I did'nt bow down. I still love him but I don't know where to start to leave him. It is a good thing yall are not together, it will really mess you up.
2007-01-11 20:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a total user who enjoys playing mind games
2007-01-12 01:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by fallenangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously isnt ready to commit to any woman, as he has proved that he cannot be relied upon, not just with you but with the other woman, as he has done the same to her as he has done to you.
Not only is he messing with your head, he is also messing with the childrens heads.
2007-01-11 20:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
complete loser unready 4 family
2007-01-11 20:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋