I Feel so lost since i lost my daddy?

Question

I LOST MY DADDY 7/17/06, HOW I HATE THAT DAY, I FEEL SO ALONE WITHOUT MY DADDY, IAM MARRIED HAVE KIDS AND GRANDCHILDERN I JUST THINK ABOUT MY DADDY ALL THE TIME, IAM WONDERING IF IAM NORMAL ACHING FOR HIM SO, I FEEL SOMETIMES I JUST WANT TO BE WITH HIM HE WAS NOT GOOD WITH CHANGES, I LOVE HIM SO

Answer 1

I'm so sorry for your loss. Time does heal a lot of things and the pain becomes bearable but a trip down memory lane can still bring tears, even after a very long time. Try to think of the good times and remember his laugh and smile, I'm sure he's watching over you.

Answer 2

Am so Sorry about your daddy. Its normal to feel the way you do, I lost my little sister and with time the pain eases and you are left with the memories of the good times you shared. Check on the bereavement sites on Google, there is a lot of support and trust me you are normal, its very painful to loose someone you love and life seems meaningless at the time but you will be OK. Try raja yoga too it helped me recently when my mum had cancer, the meditation gave me strength at the time. Try one of their classes.

Answer 3

I lost my dad when I was 11yrs old. I know how you feel. I'm sorry that you are feeling so alone. It seems that he was a big part of all of your families lives. And now you need to know that YOU are a huge part of your kids lives. I am sure that your father wouldn't want you sad or want you mourning him so much. Remember, he is in a happy place and with other people who have "waited" for him to join them. Life is short enough without us wanting to hurry things up. Enjoy your kids and grand kids. That is the way your father would have wanted it to be....honor is life by being like him to your family. In time the pain will subside, but his memory lives on forever.

Answer 4

I lost my father 1.6.04. I felt alone and hurt for such a long time. I used to go to his grave every night and cry and lay next to him, grabbing the fresh dirt. It is normal, this aching pain, and while it may never go away, it will ease... I still miss him terribly, and break down into tears sometimes when I think about him - but its not as bad as before. Give it time... Death is a wound that can still be fresh even a year later.

Answer 5

of course you are normal missing your daddy so much! no matter what age you are you will always feel pain when u lose a loved one
my mother died 6/6/05 i was pregnant with my 1st child this will will be 2 years since she died and i still hate that day and i sometimes cry myself to sleep at night when i miss her and think about her.
eventually you will be able to deal with you rloss but you will never stop loving or missing your father, sadly death is a part of life, be thankful you had so much time with him as i did my mother and have no regrets.
sorry for your loss
i'm sure you will be ok i will pray for u and your family

Answer 6

Honey, I am so sorry, I know how you feel but the way I do it is though my kids and grandchildren. I keep him alive by telling them the experiences we had together and how much life met to us. You also have your memories that can not be taken away from you. Also your father is with you, maybe not physically but in spirit and he is watching over you at all times.Just live with that thought and it will help. Remember MEMORIES. Laugh & smile about them. GOD BLESS YOU & HE IS WITH YOU.

Answer 7

I was in church last Sunday and they sang a song that broke my heart i loved my dad too and i can not even tell you the date he died on and for that i am sorry i feel like i dont care enough but i do the best i can to live a life he would be proud of.

Answer 8

I lots my Daddy too! It will be 10 years in April since he has gone!
There is not one day that goes by that I still don't think about him. You never stop thinking about him. He is waiting for you just like mine............

PS. If you never stop thinking about him he will never really be gone!
My only brother pated 07/10/06, it was also a very sad day!

Answer 9

it's really difficult to lose someone you really love especially a family member...i,myself dont wanna experience such coz i, too dont know what;'s gonna happen to me if my strength leaves me...BUT, like what you said, you are married already with kids, why not spend time w/ them instead of sulking in one corner thinking about a lost person...im sure your dad will never like to see you crying bec. of him, im sure he also wants you to be happy even without him...spread your wings, let go, get strength from your own family now coz they too, need you! Smile

Answer 10

I'm sorry to hear your pain. You're already married and have kids and grandchildren? Spend time with your grand children; it may help you with the pain. My suggestion - seek God and you will find peace.