Women: How important is a man's body?

Question

I'm not talking about their face.

I'm talking about when you get to the bedroom. When the guy takes his shirt off how important is his body? I'm not talking about fat either, I mean other features that may not make ones body so perfect. Would you accept that person?

I'm talking to all women here.....I would like everyones opinions but I would also like to hear some opinions of some women who consider their bodies "perfect" or close to. Would you accept a man who didn't exactly have the perfect body?

Answer 1

Could you be a bit more specific??

Moderately important.

Answer 2

To me I really don't go by looks, I mean you could look like the world's top model and then again have the personality of a dish rag. It seems to me that in order to have a brain or at least some intelligence you can't be pretty or cute. You all know that line "but he/she has a great personality" then the other person is thinking oh great dog meat...I wish we lived in a society where looks don't count, but of course we all can't live in a dream world. I would accept a man who was not perfect, what is perfect anyway is there such a thing? The only thing I require when going out with someone new is that they are good to their moms, if they are then their a keeper if not throw them back!!

Answer 3

The only "body thing" I cared about before marrying my husband was to know the medical history of his parents, himself and his siblings. I wanted to know about any physical or mental serious or potentially serious problems in the family, so I would know if my husband might somewhere down the road get struck down himself with something that would mean a long hard road ahead, watching as he declined bit by bit as a result of some medical condition that was incurable.
I know this wasn't what you had in mind, but it's for darn sure way more important. A woman has a right to know what kind of headaches, heartaches and other miseries she might be letting herself in for. And even more importantly, what kind if tragic physical or mental conditions she might be inflicting on any children they may have This is what a lot more women should be concerning themselves with, about the man they may be considering marrying. It's all well and fine to trot out those lovely sounding comments like "Love conquers all" and "when you love somebody nothing else matters" That kind of altruistic thinking might make people go "awwwwwww", but they wouldn't be doing that if they ever got talking to a woman who had actually spent years of her life dealing with these tragic situations.
My husband certainly was no cross between Brad Pitt and Paul Newman but by golly he was one darn healthy critter, and he sprung from a very healthy line of kinfolk who had a habit of dying at a very old age. Plus, the next most important thing, way ahead of any shallow considerations of physical perfection, he was GOOD MAN. decent, honorable, reliable, and supportive. Somebody who had gained the respect and admiration of those who came to know him. That's what made him a winner. I got just what I wanted from a life partner, which is what made me a winner too.

Answer 4

If you are talking about the package then that is all a matter of personal taste, circumcized or not, size, shape, etc. I am going to say along with everything else really depends on the gals tastes. Anybody that spends their life in the gym seeking perfection is not attractive to me. I like the flaws and a REAL person.

Answer 5

Everyone's different Babe, what one girl likes another wouldn't...so it's down to individual preferences....you know what....when we're single & we fantasize about who we're going to fall in love with & what he's going to look like....it's always a lot different to the actual person we go on to fall in love with & adore....real life takes over...
if there are things about your body that you're not over happy with then change them if poss...if not you can only learn to love the person you are anyway...or have a life time of misery...hating yourself all your life...no-ones perfect sweetheart...even if some think they are...
If a girl likes to work out & keep fit & toned she'll very probably be attracted more to guys that do the same...they'd be an odd couple with her working out & him being a fat couch potato....although that's how it can end up for some couples of course...
You are the one in control of yourself & your future Hun....change what you can...if that's what you desire & accept what you can't....you should only hang with Girls that aren't too shallow & don't gauge your body on the perfect pictures of perfect men that your weekly mags would have us believe....even they don't look like that...

Answer 6

girl I love your question. Its very important , especially in the bedroom. I think the more sexy and define a mans body is the more excitement there is and you feel so good. it sets the mood even more,and he got to match with yours. but if they are not so perfect they got to be big you know what i mean. can't be out of shape plus small down there come on!!

Answer 7

Depends on the woman. Some women are very shallow, and want a man with the perfect body. Other women would prefer a not so perfect man as long as he treats her with respect and caring. I often see "perfect women" with very heavy men aand they are quite happy togehter.

Answer 8

exactly perfect? Of course I'd accept it. But it helps alot to a man who takes care of himself. At least have a little muscle. I don't mind a gut, but at least have some nice arms. I don't like some toothpick.

There is no perfect body.

Answer 9

Appearence does not really matter to me, whether you're talking about face or body. Whoever I'm attracted to as a person is the guy I think is sexy. I think sexiness comes from self-confidence.

Answer 10

Trust me when I tell you that most people care more about the other persons enthusiasm than their body. Being a caring and considerate lover is the most important asset you have in the bedroom. If it's a woman in your bed then it's a given that she finds imperfections in herself and will be to worried about showing hers to worry about yours.

Answer 11

Honestly I'm too busy worrying about my own imperfections to even notice his. But then I'm not "perfect" so maybe my opinion does not count. Unless you have a third arm sprouting from your stomach, I doubt she's gonna notice.