How can you be a good dad at 17?

Question

i think i might have to know about this....

Answer 1

I am really glad your asking this question, and I know you will be a good Dad, just because you care enough to put this question out here for everyone to see, and to get advice. Babies are very hard at your age, your not ready, but sometimes life takes you for a turn, and whether your ready or not, here it comes! You just have to spend time with your baby, talk to him/her, smile at them, play with them, hold them, feed them, pamper them, get up in the middle of the night with them, and just always be there. You will be a good Dad, because you care enough to ask. :)
Good luck!

Answer 2

Ouch. First of all your studies are a problem. You will learn on your own how to be a good dad. Dont shout, yell or hit your baby. Absolutely rude. Give your child lots of attention.

1. Cease "put downs" directed toward the child/children and other people living in the home.
2. Never compare one sibling to another
3. Give as many hugs as possible, especially at the beginning and end of each day.
4. When disciplining, be calm, clear, firm, fast and fair.
5. Listen to the meaning behind the words your children say. What do they feel?
6. Teach that every behavior has consequences, both good and bad.
7. Encourage strength, positivity, helpfulness, humor and compassion by role modeling.
8. Encourage open communication, humor and actively listen.
9. Make time to say, "I love you."
10. Be there to share quality time with your child/children.

Answer 3

Don't panic. You can be a good dad, no matter what anyone says about your age. At least you're willing to be a dad. Some men, no matter how old, aren't willing. That is the first step. Second, is to realize that a baby will change everything in your life. Know what you are getting into. There will be no late nights partying, no bar hopping, no personal life. I'm not trying to scare you, just prepare you. Third, make every decision about your child. Will you quit your job because you hate your boss? If your a good dad, it will be not untill you have another job guaranteed. What will you buy with your last $20 in cash? Formula or beer? It should always be formula. Don't worry, you'll do fine if you're mature about it.

Answer 4

You just do your best and love the child and be there for the child. You will hit hard times emotionally, financially, socially. But as long as you are always there for the child REGARDLESS OF WHAT HAPPENS WITH THE MOTHER your child will be ok. I became a mom at 20. At the time, I didn't think much of it, but now looking back I realize how not ready I was in so many ways. But, I always took good care of my son and I stayed in school and I did the best I could. I tried not to deny myself the things young people like to do and I got through it. My son is now 10 and I'm 30 and looking back I realize that we grew up together. But I would not have had it any other way.

Answer 5

The same way that anyone else of any age is a good parent. You do the best you can, always think of the things that could harm your child mentally, emotionally, physically, and sexually and try your best to stay away from those things. Read books, watch parenting shows and movies for advice, try it if it works cool if not throw it out. Above all, it's time to set yourself aside. You wants, your desires, your dreams, all of it. It doesn't mean you have to give them up. It only means that they are now second place to something even more worthwhile. Your child. A person that has thoughts, feelings, fears, and worries just like you. Just not on the same scale.

Answer 6

First of all you need to be supportive to your girlfriend! The best fathers love the mothers of their children! I cannot teach you all you need to know about being a father, by typing it to you in this little box. It is very honorable that you would even take it upon yourself to learn. That is a huge start!!! Learn these terms & apply them... In everything, as much as possible. Also most hospitals & colleges offer courses in parenting & child heath & saftey.

SELFLESSNESS: adj. Having or exhibiting no concern for oneself; unselfish. (The American Herritage Dictionary)
&
LOVE:
Love is very patient & kind, never jealous or envious, never boastful or proud, never haughty or selfish or rude. Love does not demand its own way. It is not irritable or touchy. It does not hold grudges and will hardly even notice when others do wrong. It is never glad about injustice, but rejoices whenever truth wins out... (The Bible)

Good luck!
You CAN be a good dad at any age!!!

Answer 7

If you care about the girl and you are willing to support the baby, it will come easily. The first time you hold that baby in your arms and look into their eyes, the first time they grab your finger with their little hand, or you play with their little toes. You will want to love that baby until the end of time. If for some reason you and the girl arent together anymore, and still want to support the baby, make sure you can be a part of the baby's life as much as possible. That's all that really counts.

Answer 8

Be committed to making decisions that are not only in your best interest but in the best interest of your child. Know that your responsibility to your child endures even if you are no longer with the mother. Spend time with your child and make sure that you provide for him. If you are not already going be a dad, I suggest that you wait until you are older and have a college degree or trade that you can earn a decent living. If you are already going to be a dad then best of luck.

Answer 9

Well your on your way to being a good dad. You know you need advice and that is step one. Your going to have to need alot of patience, and know that the world now revolves around your child and no one else. Your child is going to need you 24/7. He/she is going to need you to care for them, love them, provide for what they need, and just be there for them. Babies are hard work, especially the first couple of months, when they need love and cosntant attention. Ofcourse the first couple months are sometimes the easiest. Mostly they are just going to need to eat, sleep and go to the bathroom. Lots of sleep is number one and feeding number two. But lots of love and attention at the same time. There are some great books out there that will help you. First time dads, what to expect during the first year, all you need to know about infants. Go to your local library and borrow them or buy them at a store. They are life savors. Trust me. I wish you all the luck in the world and hope you will always go to someone when you need advice or help. Goodluck daddy

Answer 10

I'll second the go to college comment ... even if you are a dad before you start.

If you go to college you can provide for your baby. Don't take shortcuts and get any old job that 'pays'. And knowing that you are preparing for the future will put the mother's mind at ease.