I have a problem because of a girl friend.?She made up some lies and I think i'm trouble because of reacting

Question

I just met this women and fell hard for her.She called from work yesturday and said she was sick and I said what was is wrong and she said that she was threatend by the managers gay boyfriend .He basically told her he would beat her up if she laid a finger on his boyfiend the manager.Well last night it was to late to call and talk to the manager but I callled him this morning and thinking about it all night I was angry by the time I got a hold of him and basically told him off and threatend to kick his butt if he didnt control his boyfriend.Well he acted as if he didnt even know what I was talking about. He said he wasnt even gay.Well I called and talked to my new girl friend come to fined out she made the hole thing up it never happend.So I ademediatly called and talked to the maneger again to apologish and tell that I had made abig mistake He would not have it he said he was going to call the police and have me arrested for threathening to kill 3 times never happed Am I in trouble

Answer 1

Yes, I think you are in a wee bit of trouble. Your girlfriend should not have lied to you like that either, but as you aren't really addressing that issue, all I'll say is this: you should have encouraged your girlfriend to call the police had this story been true, taking matters into your own hands is illegal for most situations, and usually never works out. Now you've made yourself look like the badguy when you most cetainly were not aiming to be. Good luck, and hopefully things go well from this point on. Just be humble, not defensive, should the charges actually be laid.

Answer 2

Threats of violence are indeed criminal, and no, the worst thing that could happen is not a restraining order. Yes, you could potentially be arrested, depending on what the guy does. The good thing for you is that he didn't call the police right then. If he had, chances are, you may have been arrested. I would say the likelihood that you would be arrested has dropped because of that.

Don't call him. Don't see him. Drop the girlfriend. Most likely nothing will come of it. If the police come looking for you, express your remorse, tell them the absolute truth of what happened, and you'll probably be fine.

Answer 3

Of course there is always that possibility. (Dump this girl as she is NO friend and you definitely dont need her as your girlfriend if she is goiing to play these foolish game) If I were you I would not , at this moment do anything as he may have been upset and just said whatever it was he said. Hopefully he will cool off and blow it off and do nothing. You made the effort to apologize to him once you found out what really took place. If he does do anything, you have that right to give a written explanation as to what took place and who said what and why you made the call. If it were me and this fella decided to call the police I would definitely have an attorney by my side. It may not be a bad idea to call one and ask under the circumstances what could possibly be done or take place-------just so you have some sort of an idea.

Answer 4

If I were you the next time your "girlfriend" calls TAPE her...give her sh*t about setting you up and see what she says and get her on tape.

Tell her then never to call you again and if she did you would call the police and that you think she needs psychiatric help.

Don't talk to her or the manager again and don't contact her at all. Wait till she calls you. If she suddenly shows up have a tape recorder or video camera running and hidden somewhere and turn it on before letting her in.

At least you will have proof that she is a nutcase and you can even call the police with her in the room if she starts going nuts.

Learn to use the head on your shoulder next time you meet a girl and pick one whose brains aren't quite so fried.

Answer 5

Oh dear, you'll have to wait an see on that one. End of the day unless the conversation was recorded its your word against his. Fuc!< that biatch off for a start, admit nothing if questioned by the police an just say it was a missunderstanding, you were concerned the girl was being threatened and tryed to find out the truth.
Some girls are nuts like that an go out of their way to start stuff between guys they get a kick out of it.
Good luck mate, unlucky for caring to much about that bint. I did a similar thing, my ex lass told me she'd been raped, not going into details but it was bolocks, she finally admitted that.

Answer 6

Really the only way he can prove that you threatened him is if he recorded the conversation you had with him. and if he did you might be in trouble. A restraining order could be put against you and that's it. as far as this women you met and fell head over heels for, you have to step back and ask yourself, what is the real reason she lied. it could be that she wanted your attention and nothing else. just ask her why straight up. its the only thing you can do.

Answer 7

Don't worry about it, the worst he can do is get a restraining order on you, and since you aren't going to ever see him again, the restraining order is just formality. Just be sure to stay far away from the guy and stop trusting girls you just met.
Also, stop threatening people, next time a stupid decision like this may get you in much deeper.

Answer 8

Yep you sure are in trouble. That girlfriend wanted you to cause trouble with her boss. Make sure you get a true statement from her and make sure she hangs too, Plea to anger management .don't let that girl get away with this!

Answer 9

Your word against his....unless he taped your conversation.

For starters, lose the chick....

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Answer 10

Are you sure they are not in this together?....Sounds like you were set up...Probably next thing they'll be asking for money...