I am a big girl, but I am pretty, intellegent, and funny. I am fully independant, and self sufficient, I love football, and I am a great cook, but I run into men who only want a girl whos a size three, and it doesn't matter if she's dumb as a post, and has a nose the size of a football, whats the deal?????
2007-01-11 11:37:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not looking for smart a** answeres from the shallow and fake people, I just wanna know why men are so asthetic. Why can't men pick a woman who is entertaining to be with as well as being attractive, as opposed to one whos just pretty. And some of those chicks aren't even that pretty, or have ugly attitudes that make them ugly.
2007-01-11 11:53:32 · update #1
AND I never said I was fat, I am just not a size three.
2007-01-11 11:58:05 · update #2
Because most guys settle for the mediocore girls or the ones that fit the unhealthy stereotype of beauty. It sucks, I know. Real men don't care what your size is. Real men love you for you.
2007-01-11 11:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the first thing that you need to ask yourself is whether or not you are happy with the way you are inside and out. It sounds to me like you are and I commend you on it. Being happy with yourself is the first thing you should be concerned about. Remember to stay true to yourself and never change who you are for anyone because otherwise you wouldn't be the real you.
You sound like a beautiful person and I can't imagine anyone who wouldn't want to date someone like you. Everyone wants to be in love and have someone to be there for them. This is a very big world. You will be surprised by the number of men that think larger women are the best. Personally, I would prefer someone that meets my requirements emotionally rather than physically. Understand though, physical attraction has some bearing on relationships. For example, when you see a guy and think he's cute and then think to yourself, hey, I'd like to meet him. That is step one. Physical attraction and then things go on from there.
The men that go for the size 3 girl that is dumb as rocks only want one thing. It takes a real man to consider everything the package has to offer. There's nothing wrong with you, just the materialistic and shallow guys in the world. Don't give up though, I believe that there is someone for everyone. It usually happens when you don't look for it or expect it. Good luck to you.
2007-01-11 19:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by zumi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that is a personal preference. I think as long as you take care of yourself, it shouldn't matter to a guy, but if you don't take care of yourself, then that is something that can be a deterent for a person to date another person.
Looks should not be number one but there has to be attraction for a partner, but everyone likes different characteristics of people.
2007-01-11 19:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by souplane21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In today's society you must be skinny because its the new thing also,guys must be sex gods who score hot chicks.Many people aslso feel you are contributing to americas reputation aas the fattest country,also it is unnatractive.Personally,I am very thin and am often called anorexic or bulemic and I feel that you do not deserve a hot guy OR the right to be calling skinny girls dumb,or large nosed,because your fat.Also,girls like me,and many other girls considered "hot" work very hard for their bodies while your at McDonalds
2007-01-11 19:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by Dee bella<3 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You speak of yourself very highly, maybe this is why guys don't want to be with you? I understand confidence, but is it confidence if you only compare yourself to someone who is apparently a size 3, ugly and dumb?...By the way, you spelled intelligent wrong.
2007-01-11 19:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by T 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
they're jerks. end of story.
the problem is, all the nice guys who probably admire you tend to be really shy. they'll never say anything about it...and they're hard to find. you probably don't even notice them...it happens. it's unfortunate...the only advice i can give you is to learn to look in the corners of the room.
2007-01-11 19:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by fireflower413 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about you get on a diet and make yourself a size three instead of complain about it!!! maybe it's harsh but it is an honest answer maybe not what you were hoping for but thats why you came here right? an honest answer
2007-01-11 19:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lone Hunter 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Could it be that stick girl is not critical of others and doesn't talk about other people so meanly.
2007-01-11 19:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by noddy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not all men are like that. i guess you were just unlucky. and besides if a man is that shallow, why would you want him?
2007-01-11 19:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by caleb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll find love some day.don't worry about it.
2007-01-11 19:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by I Bleed Black & Gold 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋