Okay girl breaks up with me cause i'm deploying. girl calls me couple days later and says she misses me. But i think the girl seems to be making excuses on actually getting together and seeing each other. whats the deal with this girl???
2007-01-11 11:35:45 · 11 answers · asked by yubyub26r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all girls do it. when they feel something they go for it and then they'll feel something else later and act on that
2007-01-11 11:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lone Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship takes a lot of effort. Sometimes people don't feel like they're ready for it. When they think it's becoming too serious, they leave because they're scared even though they really like you. Then they feel like they can't do it and ask for you to take them back. Maybe you should have a talk with her and see why she's doing this. Tell her if she doesn't feel like she's ready, you guys might need to take some time off.
2007-01-11 19:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by therightanswer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mentioned being deployed, so there is a chance you will not come back or you will be gone a long time. i think she decided to split up with you because she was mad that you were going to start with, then she rethought it and decided that was wrong to do. So she called you up and said she missed you and does want to see you again, and now regrets her first decision.
2007-01-11 19:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably unsure that she could deal witht he emotional stress of being faithful in a relationship when one partner is overseas and out of reach for long periods of time. She probably still has feelings for you, but does not want to re-start a relationship that she can't maintain.
2007-01-11 19:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being a manipulative biatch. Tell her that you can't see her because you're going out on a date with another girl. That should shut her up. It'll also make her want you more, so use her for what you can and start stringing her along with empty promises.
2007-01-11 19:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Deploying? im assuming you mean leaving for somewhere...either she dumped you cause she doesnt wanna get hurt when you leave but still likes you or she dumped you cause she doesnt wanna be with you but doesnt want you to be with anyone else..
2007-01-11 19:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were not scared and we dont act on it she probably misses the comfort u brot her and now shes alone and she misses u so talk 2 her!!!1
2007-01-11 19:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by mannygirl1234 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
shes probably confused.. or maybe shes just jerking you around or was making a booty call..
2007-01-11 19:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by caleb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes is prob scared
2007-01-11 19:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by jrock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEY WANT TO KNOW THAT YOU WANT THEM BACK,AND THEY WANT TO HEAR THAT YOU LOVE THEM AND YOU WILL DO ANYTHING FOR THEM.ALL THEY WANT TO DO IS HEAR THAT SO THEY CAN THROW IT IN YOUR FACE WHEN THEY BREAK UP WITH YOU....
2007-01-11 19:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by dce1dg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋