My gf doesn't think that i like and i really do so how can i show her that i do? (on msn we are fine but when we talk in real life i can't say the same stuff i usually do)
2007-01-11 11:33:36 · 16 answers · asked by Brendan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her what you just told us..that you're shy in real life and that's why you never say anything mushy.
2007-01-11 11:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how u feel. Explain that u are shy and that it is much easier to say the things she wants to hear on msn rather than face to face. Eventually u are gonna have to talk to her face to face about it. And do little things for her to show u care. buy her flowers, give her a massage, cook dinner for her, etc... The actions speak louder than words anyways
2007-01-11 19:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i had the same problem, i kinda still do. the best thing is your gonna have to learn to speak what you type. its much easier to type bc u have no pressure. but when u see her ur afraid to say anything wrong. dont be afraid dude. just talk normal and try to talk as much as like you do on msn. o yea, a hug or two helps. but dont hold out both arms completely perpendicualr to your body. hold them kinda facing down but out wide, like your making a human arrow pointing up, point the bottom of your wrists at her. then just move in and hang on for as long as you think is right. she knows that shes liking it, she just doesn't know about how you feel so she'll probably let go early. if you hold on for just a bit longer then she'll never want to let go. i kno, that i never wanted to let go, but i thought i was making her uncomfortable. even though it lasted for about 6 seconds it was the best one ever. she seemed completely sparkly and overly happy for 3 days just for that one hug. give her someone to hold onto when the world around her is crumbling and your her last resort. be there for her all the time and as much as possible. hope everything turns out well dude
2007-01-11 19:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by Robinhood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you say to her the things you say to her on msn? Guys don't like to show their felling but girls like it when they do .Ask her to come and talk to you privately, look her strait in the eyes and tell her exactly how you feel about her and then squeeze her to death(hug). That should show her you like her.
2007-01-11 19:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by darkfallenangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you are shy and that when your on msn its easier to say things then when shes right infront of you. tell her that you mean them too..
2007-01-11 19:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've got it bad for her. it takes time to share feels out loud trust me i know that 4 a fact. write the important stuff in a letter & have her read it infront of u. start with the simple things, complement her on how she looks and stuff you get the hang of it.
2007-01-11 19:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by crunch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
****** hug her... kiss her... tell her that you love her, damn man how you supposed to love someone if you can't show it! show her how you feel, and you will be talkin to her like you do on MSN in no time.
2007-01-11 19:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by The Jew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hug her randomly. you don't need to SAY anything. unless she's got a phobia of people touching her or something, she'll probably be really secretly happy about it, even if she tells you to get off lol...as long as you don't get nasty or rude or something in person, i think your problem is pretty normal...sadly. just try a hug, it helps.
2007-01-11 19:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by fireflower413 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time she makes a comment about you not likeing her,say youll prove you do.THan plan a day for you and her and do whatever she wants.and DONT do early sex...shell think you want her for that only.
2007-01-11 19:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by Dee bella<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be serious but tell her that it's easier to write it than say it. she should understand cause there's alot of people mostly guys out here just like this
2007-01-11 19:38:27 · answer #10 · answered by k_princess84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋