We have been dating for about a month and a half....and she seemed really excited about going out with me back then (and she said that she sees us as a long term relationship) but it just all kinda faded. She still says she loves me, but it just seems like im a burden to her. For the past few days she hasnt really talked to me. When she does, she answers with short answers like "yeah" "sure" "no" or "ok" ....stuff like that. I dont even think she realizes how much I love her....I hope she doesnt want to break up with me. I couldnt handle it...
2007-01-11 11:09:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's either getting that "strange" behind your back, or she's planning to little fella. It's over.
2007-01-11 11:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by rex_razor69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you could it has only been a month not saying that you are really not in love but you have to realize that when you first meet a person. They play a role diffent from there real self it last 2weeks or 2 months and after that the real person comes out they are now not so nice and sweet and understand. If I was you I would just give her her space.
2007-01-11 11:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will be a hard lesson for you if you don't straighten up. Yes, you have deep feelings. She may not feel the same. It hurts, but that pain will fade. Especially, if you don't spend so much time thinking about it. She may just need some "me" or "alone" time. No harm in that. Give her space. If she really cares, she'll be back. If not, you have got to move on. Find a hobby.
2007-01-11 11:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by prtybrwnskn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may be something which will try your love for her. Love is a effect of dealing with united statesand downs. at the same time as all is suitable and harmonious, there is no thanks to inform if love is truly present. that is getting via the difficult stuff that spells out love. notwithstanding...i'm not declaring that you do not love her because you've those sturdy emotions. you're proper to be dissatisfied about her mendacity to you about her virginity. yet does her lack of virginity make you're taking care of her a lot less or in simple terms make you experience a lot less protect with the actual undeniable reality that you're a virgin? I say provide it a probability. there are a large number of situations that i visit't get over issues my husband has finished and we've been jointly probable longer than you've been alive. you are able to artwork previous them without killing the relationship, yet you in effortless words want the right equipment to administration issues.
2016-11-23 12:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try asking her what is wrong. there could be something personal that she is going through that may be causing her to act like that. if she says nothing then ask her why is she being short with you all of the time and tell her how her changes are affecting you.
but from experience, one person in the relationship always love the other more than the other love them. as much as people try to make it seem, love is hardly ever 50/50.
2007-01-11 11:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by PreciousLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation but it's the other way I around. I do that to my boyfriend because I have a lot on my mind. He always brings himself down because he doesn't think he's good enough. SO i'm telling you if your girlfriend saids she loves u it's true. Just don't think she doesn't love you. u sound like a great guy and she wouldn't give u up if she knows that.
2007-01-11 11:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by love89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okies there it seems like she has lost interest so I would talk to her about it...maybe she just isn't feeling you the way she did at the start of the relationship.
2007-01-11 11:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by Lucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love?..in a month and a half? Are you sure?
2007-01-11 11:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to her about it
2007-01-11 11:13:44 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be losing interest, and you can handle it.
2007-01-11 11:13:52 · answer #10 · answered by iblockidiots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋