I love 2 guys, they are both my soul and heart, but i dont know which one to choose and which one to leave? Help!
The 1st guy = Moe 2nd guy= Kris
I've been wit moe for 6 yrs and we were once engaged, but my father didnt approve. Not because he was bad but because he was from another ethinicity. Moe is my everything but sometimes a girl needs more, u know? But then kris is like my best friend, i tell all my secrets to him and im always open to him whenever i need to. I can be myself around kris, but then my love (Moe) is going to the army and i feel bad because i have two guys that i want to be with . But i only can have one in my life!!! Plz i need advice..Imma sad girl with a hurt full of innocence and i just wanna know what the right path to true love is.THNX!
2007-01-11 11:07:55 · 12 answers · asked by Lil Beauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel sorry for the guy you choose to be with.
2007-01-11 11:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by iblockidiots 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have feeling for another guy it is not fair to Moe for you to keep leading him on. If you are already having these feeling, then when he leaves for the army it will only get worse. I don't suggest getting involved with your best friend unless you are absolutely sure that you really love him and that he feels the same way. You also need to ask yourself, if you did get with him and you were to break up, whatever the reason, would you all be able to be friends again without feeling awkward or jealous around eachother if they started dating someone else? I started dating my best friend of 7 years and it did not work out. Needless to say, we are no longer friends.
2007-01-11 19:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by crazymaysie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i say you choose kris, because if after you say" Moe is everything but a girl needs more" that goes to show that you don't love moe. It seems you are very comfortable with moe, so choose him and don't give yourself a headache ok!!
2007-01-11 19:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by empress29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is the basis of any good relationship. If you need to pick one guy, you need to pick the one you feel most comfortable around. If your fathers approval is important to you, then you need to take that into consideration also. Follow your heart. Take some time, sit down, and listen to yourself. Block out any thoughts of what you "think" you should do, or what anybody else "thinks" you should do, and do what your heart, body and mind tells you. Everything will work out, even though it seems like a lose-lose situation. Keep your head and your spirits up.
2007-01-11 19:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by khartman492000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be lovers with someone who knows all your secrets and you will have to look for another best friend stick with Moe and when you want more maybe the 3 of you can get together.
2007-01-11 19:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say that u should take kris. if you can express your feelings and be yourself around him it will be very easy to take it to the next lvl. (if you want/need to)
2007-01-11 19:12:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry honey but i dont think you truely love either one of them... not like your suppose to anyway.. each one of them fill a special place in your heart but not the whole heart.. you sound real young to me
2007-01-11 19:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No problem. You should all 3 get together and share.
2007-01-11 19:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about having an open relationship and having them both. They might agree...
2007-01-11 19:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one that can answer this question.Follow your heart = )
2007-01-11 19:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋