How do you get a boy to like you?

Question

I love this boy at my school and I have a BIG crush on him...how do I get him to like me!!!!!

Answer 1

Develop an eating disorder and start dressing like a prostitute.

Answer 2

Okay, first off, you don't get anyone to like you. It's one of those things that will happen naturally or they won't. Basically, if you are trying things to make him like you, then you are not being the real you. Think about it. If you are doing something out of character for you and then he likes you, that would mean that he is liking the person you "created" and not the true person that you are. Other than changing who you are, you can try an occassional bumping into and maybe dropping a book. You can also just "happen" to be hanging out where he usually hangs out with his friends. What I am basically trying to say is make sure he knows you exist and never be shy to come up to him and say hello. Oh, and you don't love him, you just have a big crush on a guy that looks good. Get to know him first and then make up your mind. Best wishes to you and be true to yourself.

Answer 3

Its hard to get anyone to LIKE you when you mean it, usually love is a natural thing, and should be naturally pursued. Therefor, I think you should just be yourself, talk to him, ask him about HIM (thats a big one) talk about HIM, and DON'T COME ACROSS AS A STOCKER. guys hate that (i am one..lol)

also, get a group of friends togeather to go some place, then invite him, so you can get to know him better, and you guys can form a NATURAL relationship, and not a forced relationship. (if you know what I mean)

Always know when to stop a conversation, and when to start one. If you talk to him all the time, he will think you're a stalker, and won't want to be around you. If you don't talk at all, then you're just as good as a friend, but not a boyfriend.

Just be yourself, show in his interest, hang out with him, don't be a stalker, and don't talk to him so much he has to bring ear plugs with him whenever he is around you

:)

Good luck!

Oh, and if he does become your boyfriend, you have my blessings :) lol

Answer 4

be urself thats the best thing act cool and talk to him like hes nothing but another guy then that will really getting him wanting to know more about u

Answer 5

you cant make someone like you, they either do or they dont. harsh when its the latter, but true. ive been there myself. found the best option is to just be yourself, i know it sounds like the obvious answer but it works best. if the guy you like ends up seeing you for you and likes it, you'll know. and if not, just think it's his loss and try your best to move on.

the other way to know is to just go ahead and ask him out! takes alot of courage i know but at least you'll know where you stand.

good luck!

Answer 6

Chasity, try making eye to eye contact and say hi! Just be yourself. Pretty soon you'll have him blushing because all along he liked you too!

Answer 7

be yourself!!! don't trade any of your likes, dislikes, talents, friends, hobbies.. etc... When you find the "right boy".. he will like you for who you are, including all your quirky habits!

Answer 8

I would say be yourself I'm sure you are a wonderful person.

Answer 9

don't overpush it, but try talking to him and get to know him better. also try to find some common interests that you share with him.

Answer 10

tell him that you like him... there is no real way to "get" someone to like you they have to like you before hand. and if he has any feeling for you when you tell him that you like him... then there might be a spark.