So this girl I saw at a local club for like 3 seconds, recognized me on myspace and we have started talking online and on the phone. She is GORGEOUS, the kind of girl I would typically think is way out of my league. She seems to be really into me, and wants to hang out. The only issue is that she just broke up with her ex 5 days ago, and she parties ALOT. which makes me nervous. Other than that, She seems perfect, we get along great, and shes gorgeous. I just have this bad feeling that this is too good to be true, or that something isnt right. I know I have some self confidence/esteem issues. Could it just be that? Or is this too good to be true?
2007-01-11 10:41:04 · 12 answers · asked by Brian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's not too good to be true- she's a girl who parties ALOT and probably sees you as a guy to buy her drinks until she meets another boyfriend. I don't exactly see what's so good about her. Is she a drunk?
2007-01-11 10:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u never know until u find out.
she parties a lot/ are you worring about if u do go out how much time she will dedicate 2 u and/or if she will cheat or not? do u know if she is into u or not?
i would say just be her friend for a little more get 2 know her a little better, look beyond the party gurl n find out who she really is. y did she break up w/ her b.f? did he cheat. if so comfort her let her know u will b there if she needs n e thing. thats my advice!:)
2007-01-11 18:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she very well could be on the rebound. have you tried asking her what it is that she is looking for right now. see if she will be honest enough to tell you. if you are looking for what she is looking for then go for it. you will never know if something is too good to be true if you don't try it out. if you two are not looking for the same things, then tell her that you enjoy her friendship (it sounds like you do) and that you want to keep it at that, just a friendship. if she doesn't understand then she wasnt meant for you to be with anyway. if she does, gravy!!!!
2007-01-11 18:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by PreciousLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things usually seem perfect until you give it time. you need to wait until you see the flaws of the relationship. for now just have fun and don't stress too much about where you guys are going. in time, both of you will know more about each other and each other's flaws. if things still work out, then great.
2007-01-11 18:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow but chances are she is on the rebound or she isnt looking for anything serious so don't get emotionally attached to her or it will come back and bite you in the ***.
2007-01-11 18:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by cHiKiBaBe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she parties a lot, watch out! She may drag you into bed before you know it. Be careful: at list use protection.
2007-01-11 18:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kalistrat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is on the rebound. Don't giove it up to her right away. Hang out with her and all, but don't get drunk and hook up with her otherwise you are just her rebound.
2007-01-11 18:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that she may be looking to get some. but i cold be wrong...but speaking as a party girl..yeah...thats def sounds like shes using u as rebound
2007-01-11 18:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by Traci Alise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it a chance and stop looking for problems.
2007-01-11 18:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you stop thinking that good things can't happen to you, you'll realise that it's obvious she wants to get to know you better, or sth else.. just enjoy it now, you may be really sorry later :))
2007-01-11 18:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by hilarie 1710 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋