Why is it that when after a break-up with someone you love dearly, we turn on the love songs? When we are crying and hurting already.
2007-01-11 10:38:25 · 9 answers · asked by helpful friend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gluttons for punishment I guess......;-(
2007-01-11 10:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by secret_oktober_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we like to put ourselves through that. I know I do it to just remind me of the good times and memories so that I at least have something to hold on to since I dont have my partner to hold anymore. Everybody does it for different reasons. To some it helps them move on faster or deal with it better!!!
2007-01-11 18:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by cHiKiBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It helps us relate to our own life. Not only that, but it could give us confident and a chance for a new beginning! =)
2007-01-11 18:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, i like to listen to the mean songs..like empowerment songs to get going..but yea, sad love songs does bring you memories tho...
2007-01-11 18:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by love2help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's because people simply have to cry to feel better ands also it is because people usually break-up because they let their head substitute for their heart
2007-01-11 18:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by mikayla p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its normal to be broken about someone and it shows that you really cared for them.
2007-01-11 18:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it helps u heal or somethin, or maybe it's bc u can relate so u just listen to it, or maybe both.
2007-01-11 18:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by Fn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it puts you in the mood to feel bad.
2007-01-11 18:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by Josef F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so we can wallow in self pity
2007-01-11 18:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by Courtney L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋