Ok so my friend(no really she's my friend) made a myspace, but she is really self-concious. So she put up pics of a little known actress. & she started talking 2 this guy, & she has really strong feelings 4 him, she thinks that she might b in love. Well he found out about the fake pics, so she made a new mypsace w/ her own pics, the guy got pissed & deleted his myspace, & made a new 1 & never told her. She wants him 2 forgive her, b/c she loves him, so how can she win back his trust?
No seriosly my friend wants to know
2007-01-11 10:37:56 · 12 answers · asked by Kristen R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok everyone is saying its me, it seriously is not, my friend Maria is truly heart broken, so stop saying its me! b/c i live right down the street from him, and I'm not shy!
2007-01-11 10:47:52 · update #1
Okay.... your friend has a serious problem with self confidence and self image. That's the first thing that she needs to work on. To answer your question, because there was not really a history (like they didn't date or anything... they never hung out together), I don't think there is anything she can do to win him back. It's one thing to lie when there is a relationship there and there is a history. But to start everything with a lie? I don't think he will ever believe anything she says ever again. This is evident by his creating a myspace account and really not wanting her to be part of it. It sucks that it happened that way, but from what I'm gathering, she is still young and has plenty of time to meet guys and make mistakes (to learn from them). It's a little creepy that she is in love with a guy she has never met in real life and is indicative of how much more she has to learn before she can truly be happy. Hope this helps.
2007-01-11 11:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by Paulyterp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay the reaper. Now she know why she was told not to lie while growing up. I think she should apologize and get out of his life. If he decides to come back to her then so be it but she has no right to pursue him any more. Guys get hurt and just because your friend is hurt doesn't mean she should get the guy in the end.
She did wrong and kept doing wrong for how long, why should anyone trust her. And this is on-line where you shouldn't really trust anyone anyway.
2007-01-11 18:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by Tim D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could speak to him face to face (which is best) or if that is not an option, on the telephone. She may have a chance one more time. Also she should be completely honest with him about the whole thing. If that doesn't work, then let him go. He sounds as though he has a bad temper anyway and that is difficult for anyone to live with.
2007-01-11 18:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... why would you delete a myspace and make a new one and you could just block it?
and why would you keep mentioning its your friend, if it is you, seriously, no one cares, quit being so scared
as to gain the trust back, all you can do is ask for forgiveness, and if hes mad that your dont look like the actress then he is a little superficial, just ask for forgiveness, and if he dosnt forgive, sorry
2007-01-11 18:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how can she have feelings for a guy she does not know. He could really be 50 for all she knows.
Why would she want to get a guy back who is just into looks on the computer?
Get over it, get a real life, find a real boy.
2007-01-11 18:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a hard thing to regain back. If this is just a guy she meet on line then it may just not be safe enough for her to even pursue it. He may be a pervert. If she is a teenager then she must forget about meeting people on line it is not safe. Too Dangerous.
2007-01-11 18:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by krizma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only a online relationship, if he just delet his my space because of a little mistake she did he is not worth her time. In reality, how well can you really know a "guy" online: does she know what he likes other than the stuff he puts on my space. Please tell you friend to give up this "crush" before she really crash!
2007-01-11 18:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by lovebug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was based on a lie so the friendship they had was fake.
She won't get him back because she made a fake imae of herself and continued with it.
2007-01-11 18:45:33 · answer #8 · answered by bjka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is nonsense...she shouldn't worry about the guy and find somebody who will not flip out on her. She should learn from this and be real next time.
2007-01-11 18:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by Princess Purple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he is unlucky
u cant trust a guy like that
2007-01-11 18:42:17 · answer #10 · answered by dreamgirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋