Ok so theres this guy that used to go to my horseback riding stable, he is a horseshoer. So anyways, he is 26 and im 15. He texts me when i need to get my horse shoed but than he starts like making conversation with me after that. So last night, this isnt the first time, he says "we need to find you a cute cowboy" i was like "im too busy" and hes like "ill take you to some rodeos and we can find you one." and i didnt say anything. And, he thinks that i am a ditz and he makes fun of me all the time for it. And i was like "whats wrong with being a ditz?" and hes all like "personally i think they're cute" During the summer when i was going to that stable, he was like all over me basicallly, and like tickling me and stuff. I dont know what to think, maybe hes just like that?!?!? idk but i DONT like him in anyway but friends,and i want to know what u think about him liking me?!?
2007-01-11 10:31:20 · 4 answers · asked by Elle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he likes you (especially since he was tickling you) and you need to put him in his place.
You should tell him that you are concerned about his feelings for you. Let him know that you are fine with friends only but you want him to stop tickling you. If there are other things that he does which make you uncomfortable, let him know those issues as well. He needs to know that he is going too far.
If you do not feel comfortable confronting him, ask your parents to talk to him or talk to the manager of the riding stable.
Good luck!
2007-01-11 11:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have a crush on you, but with him being so much older, its not going to go anywhere. Just try not be alone with him and keep things business like. Try not to be too friendly or you'll give him the wrong idea and invite all kinds of trouble. If he is really bothering you, just goto another stable, or complain to who is in charge there.
2007-01-11 18:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound like a bad guy. Try going out with him, don't let him touch you, kiss you, feel you, or anything. If he pulls the sex or as I like to call it "date rape" bust his nuts, get him arrested, never talk to him.
2007-01-11 18:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by Rain. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to let your mommy know that this pedophile is hitting on you.
2007-01-11 18:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋