My Boyfriend just found out that another Man bought me a buisness suit 5 month ago. I was unemployed & homeless & needed a job & I had no money to buy any clothes, so this older guy I know offered to get me somthing to wear for my job interviews (by the way I got a job at a lawfirm) there was nothing sexual of any nature taking place. This gentelman is just a friend an dmore of an mentor, giving advice on life, work & going back to college...anyway he just found out because when we were homeless we were staying with his best friend & girl friend & they knew the truth, he didn't cause he is jalous & violent & crazy...now he knows & he wants to see me a.s.a.p! I am worried & i don't want to go home...I shouldnt have lied but I needed a job, but I really didn't do anything. I am so stressed right now I just wanne dissapear!
2007-01-11 10:27:36 · 9 answers · asked by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys are very funny people when they deal with girls. Most guys who falls in love always questions himself is she a whore? I was watching an episode of Dr. Phil last year and I saw something that really disturbed me. The wife admitted she slept with 42 men and she won't have sex with her husband. The poor man was in tears. Of course I would of divorce her with out a second of a thought.
It is not easy for female when they find the so-call perfect man. He wants to know her pass, and sometimes the female pass can affect if he want to continue the relationship.
It's time for you to allow another person or family members to be aware of your concern. Talk to him in details on the phone regarding what he wants to say to you. Don't meet him where's no one can't hear you. It is best to go to a park where people are at least feet away in case of emergency. If that options are not suitable, discuss his concern on yahoo chat.
2007-01-11 10:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go home, what on earth are you doing with a jealous, violent crazy man who you are scared of. Aren't you worth more than that? You are making something of your life and believe me if he is like this already he is only going to get worse. Sweetheart leave him now, before it's too late and you become another crime statistic. Tina Turner left Ike in the middle of the night with absolutely nothing but the clothes she was wearing and left the marriage with only her name. It worked out OK for her.
2007-01-11 18:36:40 · answer #2 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd call your friends and make sure they are there. You may even want to call your mentor as well.
What you need to do is get a way from this guy and stay away from him. He will do nothing but destroy your life. You have a good job and are beginning to pull yourself up and onto your feet.
Do not let this guy bring you back down. It is just not worth it.
2007-01-11 18:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him exactly what happened and that it is the truth. If he doesn't believe or get violent with you, I would definitely re-evaluate your relationship. Your striving to make things better, what about him. If you have to, get you mentor friend to go over to your house tonight and let him explain. Don't let your bf scare you like that, you deserve better. Tell him to change or other changes will take place, be strong.
Good luck !
2007-01-11 18:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with a man that is mad because you got help when you really needed it? Why are you with a, as you put it, violent, jealous and crazy, man?
2007-01-11 18:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur B/F never cared fr ur needs wn U were in distress.Why to care fr him?
TAKE CARE OF tis eLDER MAN .
Will find him more cooperative
2007-01-11 18:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by NAVIN S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go home and tell him the truth cause lying gets you no where
2007-01-11 18:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by LiTlE mIsSy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong, therefore you should not be scared
just explain it to your bf
2007-01-11 18:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just shw him this question.
2007-01-11 18:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by ~ Lillie ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋