I am 33. I am still a virgin. I have never had a girlfriend. I have a big nose, a skinny face, balding and a long neck. Women say it's all about confidence. But how can I gain confidence when I am ugly and women don't like me?
2007-01-11 10:25:39 · 9 answers · asked by NJboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The same way you gain confidence in an acquired skill. PRACTICE. Find something you DO like about yourself... write down all the good things about yourself... intelligence? education? kind? loves animals? has a job? Ugly is on the inside honey.... if you are mean-spirited, rude, dishonest, use people etc... then looks are gonna be the last thing a girl sees. Physically you may not be able to change your nose, face, hair, and neck... but you CAN stand up straight. You can smile. You can be friendly and kind... and polite. Don't worry. Some girl will discover what a catch you are! Don't worry about the stuff you can't change... work on the things you can!!! Confidence will come with practice of those good qualities that have nothing to do with looks. Contrary to what you might believe, we good girls appreciate a listening, caring, kind man... if you are looking for a bad girl to just get laid... then you aren't serious about confidence. You are only serious about getting laid. You want a real relationship... work on all the other qualities... oh, and a sense of humor (not a list of jokes...but a real ability to laugh at life) is number one on nearly every girl's list that I know!!!
2007-01-11 10:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please take five minutes to write a list of 10 or more positive things about you. The first thing you need to do is: love and admire yourself. Look directly to a mirror and repeat the positive attributes you have, if possible every day. Everybody is pretty. Focus in your positive attributes- your feelings. Gain confidence in yourself, check your wardrobe, walk in a secure manner, change the places you visit and talk to different persons. Practice sports or activities that link you with people. Hope that you focus to the positive in you, find a women to enjoy life.
2007-01-11 10:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by electromom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make more women friends first, don't think of everyone as a potential girlfriend. Then youll feel more confident around women and more will get to know how great you are. X
2007-01-11 10:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start at the bottom of the food chain. Tell yourself that you're an eagle. Imagine yourself as a woman talking to another woman. This works everytime.
2007-01-11 10:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Chuck F. Answers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET A UGLY GIRL WITH A GREAT PERSONALITY...
BUT TRY TO START WORKIN OUT. BEING IN GOOD SHAPE IS A CONFIDENCE BOOSTER. PLUS WOMEN LOVE MEN WITH NICE BODIES....SHAVE YOUR HEAD AND DONT HALF *** WORK OUT... SHAVE YOUR HEAD...
GO TO A WOMEN'S SPA.OR SALON... TELL THEM YOU WANT A MAKE OVER... THEY'LL LOVE TO HELP YOU.. IN LESS THAN 2 MONTHS YOU'LL FEEL LIKE A NEW MAN.. PLUS YOU'LL HAVE ALOT OF GIRL ADVICE...
2007-01-11 10:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by DOC. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might help to stop calling yourself Larrytheloser. That's usually a red flag.
2007-01-11 10:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-11 10:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by arabontheloose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to unattractive women and work ur way up
2007-01-11 10:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by Antonio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-11 10:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋