Ok so i wanna know what like high school kids and middle school kids think of middle school dating?? cuz a lot of my friends are dating and quite a few guys like me... and some guys keep asking my friends 2 ask me out... so should i say yes or wait?? and pls tell why... thx!
2007-01-11 10:17:04 · 16 answers · asked by Cupcake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it would be all right to date if you keep these three rules in mind:
1. Don't act like your married to the person. Just date on a casual level. Go out together and talk, but don't go holding hands in the hall. This whole "married" notion can lead to some messy breakups. And, you won't stay friends. So remember: stay casual
2. Don't make your relationships public. Let your friends know, but the whole school doesn't have to know. This leads to rumors getting started.
3. You say that "quite a few guys like you", which means you have quite a selection. Try to have a chill-out break from guys between relationships. Dating and breaking up with guys consecutively can lead to a bad reputation for you among your peers
Hope I helped and Good Luck !
Remember: Date because you like someone, not because your friends are doing it.
2007-01-12 12:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by Sasha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got a questions for you cupcake your a guy as stated above and some guys ask your friends to ask me out. And quite a few guys like you.
Major rule of dating is to first figure out what gender you are. This will become very helpful when you turn 18 and decide that holding hands is nice but you want to start kissing.
Really if I think I can figure it out, you should make the boys ask the girl, you, out with their own mouth.
I would wait because you are going to get hurt because boys this age will most likely dump you because it is a game more than feelings.
Another question who is driving and paying for the movies. You can not date if you can not support it. You maybe boyfriend/girlfriend or seeing each other but that not dating.
Good luck
2007-01-11 10:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Tim D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm
In highschool now .. And looking back to when I was in middle school.. Those relationships are just awkward and stupid... But could be pretty exciting at the moment.. I say go for it if you really like the guy/girl.. But if not then just stick to flirting(always respecting and making others respect yourself and knowing how to have control to not become the "flirty slut") be smart about it and just have fun .. Unless you really like the person which is always fun to flirt as well
2014-07-13 20:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's completely fine to date in middle school, as long as you really like the person. Don't date someone because you're tired of being single and that person happens to have a crush on you. Find someone who you share a lot of common interests with. If you like the person a lot, then say yes. And usually people think it's weird for a girl to ask people out, but if there is a specific person you really like, I don't see a problem with you asking them out. If they say no, it's not the end of the world. And I wouldn't reccomend being in one of those useless relationships where you barely even spend any time together and don't even hug, but still call it dating. Me and my girlfriend both love anime and cats. We hug anytime we greet each other or say goodbye, we hold hands when we walk next to each other. She's really sweet and always does things for me like holding doors open for me, pulling out chairs for me, and buying me ice cream. Try to find a relationship like that.
2016-12-04 03:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kayley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooo... I'm in middle school too and I happen to be dating a wonderful guy. If you're looking for someone to date make sure you actually know them first. Make sure you have some common interests. I happen to be an art geek addicted to anime, but he's more of a building/ football guy. The thing that connects us is the fact that we both watch anime, and we've been in the same classes for the past three years. When I met him, I used to mess with him and kick him and be super mean, but eventually we grew to geniunely care for each other. He actually told me he liked me first, which sparked an uncommon reaction from me (blushing crazily and flustered). So if you end up dating someone in middle school, make sure you actually care for them. If you really like him then go for it. But date someone you genuinely like and not someone who just popped up out of tje blue.
2016-01-23 02:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by Rayray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it! but dont take it as a serious thing. You can create character, but remember boys just add drama to the non-dramatic middle school life. When i got into highschool i was so lost in the world of boys u have no idea. I wish i had some practice
2007-01-11 10:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever you want to do, if your parents say its ok, and you want to, then go for it. But never go out with someone against your parents' wishes. I would wait, i made the mistake of keeping boyfriends from my parents when i was in middle school, and trust me, having a boyfriend is fun and all, but if it turns into a relationship, hanging out with your friends isn't as often as it used to be, i say, wait, and enjoy being young, and hanging out wit your girls, you don't need to rush anything, you have plenty of time to date. your only in middle school.
2007-01-11 10:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by iwillfightyourfooforyou 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
from personal experience middle school relationships go no where and they have a tendency to ruin your life (at least it seems like it). sweetie if a guy likes you he should ask you not your friends. get to know the guys first and if you like him back, sure go out with him but dont put yourself completely outthere because you are still in middle school. if you dont like any of them then just wait. good luck and i hope im of some help.
2007-01-11 10:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should go for it bc how are you going to get to know guys and experince the "jr high luv" if you don't try i really think you should date a little since they can't force u to do anything u don't want to do and remember that first u have to respect ur self so other ppl can respect u
2007-01-11 10:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in high school, but when i was in middle school a bunch of guys would ask me out, but i turned them down. most of my friends were dating also, and now there's only one couple that i know from that time that are still together...anyways my point is don't feel pressured and the guys are more mature in high school.
2007-01-11 10:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by Gorgeous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋