girls.why am i like this??

Question

ok it doesnt matter if i have a crush on the boy or not. but i hate eating infront of guys. family is fine. but anyone else even a boyfriend or a crush i hate eating infront of them? why is this?? does anyone else feel the same way?

Answer 1

It's normal to be scared of eating in front of them. I suggest you start out by ordering simple, healthy meals that make no mess, like a salad. After you become a little more comfortable around the person, you can order something that tastes better, like a burger. Don't be self-conscious, though. You feel like he's watching you closely, but he isn't, unless he really likes you, in which case he doesn't care how you're eating.

Answer 2

I have before when I was a teen , next time you around the man that you like just keep in mind that eating can a sexual experience :) The reason you might feel embarrased is because you just eat to eat but eating is an experience in it's self why not share show of the way you eat ! Don't hesitate!

Answer 3

It is really normal to be that way. I was the same way. Still am depending on the company I am around. I will pick at my plate depending...however being married now and no longer dating my hubby I eat NO PROBLEMO! I think it is a matter of nerves and or self confidence. I remember having a crush and I didn't want to eat at all around them...but when I got home I went right to the fridge!

Answer 4

Because you are shy and reserved. There is nothing wrong with it unless of course you have a date and won't eat when he takes you to dinner. Just remember, everyone eats and as long as you don't commit gluttony, choke or slober while doing so, you should be okay. Eat small and chew thoroughly so you can build up some confidence whrn you do eat around guys.

Answer 5

uh im a guy but i think i know.. my sista has same problem rofl

ok..probably the main reason is that u dont want to show ur guy..or crush that you are a pig eater...or an anerexic eater thing..

soo the best way to do this is.......dont feel nervous...just eat normally..everygirl is sexy when they eat normally!

the second reasing is probably that u dont want them to make fun of you..just be yourself and you will probably not care because if you try too hard to make it unnoticable it wil be a noticeable eating habit thing..so just eat normally

EAT NORMALLY!! oh and how old are ya?

Answer 6

I think it's just something you don't do very often, and so you are not comfortable with it. I can't say I was ever like that but i can understand where you are coming from with that insecurity. My advice would be to eat with guy's more often, unless it doesnt bother you that much. but since you're asking a question I'm guessing it does so.....

Answer 7

i fell the same way sometimes. its natural! you dont want 2 eat infront of them because it makes you feel heavy right well try eating small portions and then wait 2 get home if u r still hungry thats what i do

Answer 8

i hate my laugh(at times i can laugh really loud). but hey its fine. just try eating infront of people every now and then. your eating habits can't be that bad. but i've learned to deal with my laugh the way you eat and laugh shows(sometimes) what kind of person you are and i'm sure if you're a really good person people will overlook your eating habits.

Answer 9

I get a similar feeling.. I just get kinda highstrung eating in front of guys.. and I feel kinda sick. my stomach get's all topsy turvy.. I can only take 5 or 6 bites and then that's it. my friends laugh at me about it, I suppose it's normal, we've all got something we're uncomfortable to do infront of the opposite gender.. nothing to worry too much about. I just laugh at myself with my friends..

Answer 10

Lots of girls I know have felt this way, { I kinda wish I did!}. I wouldn't worry too much about it. If it helps, most guys feel that girls that don't like to eat in front of them kind of a turn off, so I'd try to get over it.