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Question

There is a guy I Love so much but he is about 5 years older and we talk every night on the phone but I hardly ever get to see him i know he loves me but I dont know what he means he is anyways saying that we are brother and sister but I know it goes deeper than that... Because we have made out twice and he is always saying he loves me.....plus brother and sister dont make out...i hope not anyways... i want to play hard to get with him but i dont know how we only talk over the phone. I can only call him because he cant call me because my real sister and mom will think something really bad is up but it's not like that at all!! How do you play (hard to get) with a guy you dont hardly ever see but only talk to over the phone! Can you even play (hard to get) over the phone??...well if so please somebody help me!!!!! But remember he is about 5 years older than me!! Please somebody help me get this guy wrapped around my finger!!!!!! Thanks

NO HE IS NOT MARRIED AND HE DOESNT HAVE A GIRLFRIEND!!!!!

Answer 1

The age doesn't matter at all. What's more important is straight communication with him. If you really love this guy, and then you don't have time to play games with him, hard to get etc...You must understand when it comes to relationship it is important to know where you're place in his life. The only way to find out is confront him and address your concern and desire.

Don't torture yourself by waiting for him to make the move like in a chess game. What ever you do avoid playing silly games. Your affection toward him is very important to you.

When he says something that you don't fully understand, question him until the true is understandable to you. Never allow him to make comments or statements that you have to figure what he 's (trying) saying to you. Know for a fact how he view you, and also if he is expressing a relationship, allow him to explore what is his version of relationship and then give him your version!

Please keep in mind, love God first, and trust in Him.

Answer 2

ion know how old u r, but it sounds like ur in the teen area..for one thing, u don't wanna play games with anybody..it's not fun at all and it can lead to negative stuff..n that sister n brother stuff..well, if u really think he like u, then he prlly just sayin that 2 try 2 get the same idea out his head..he prlly feel that it will mess up the relationship..n 5 years apart? again, ion kno how old u r, but if ur under 20years old than my opinion is that u should just leave it alone..that's 2 much of a gap..u can't even think the same way and relate 2 the same things being 5yrs apart..i'm 20 and i wouldn't date anybody that's like 5 yrs over or under me..u have 2 really know what love is in order 2 do somthin like that..but games..u do not play..not now, not never..me n my best friend made out too many times (we're only a year apart though) and it went from making out 2 me finally giving myself up 2 him..and he even though he is my best friend, it was still a bad time for it 2 happen..u just gotta slow down..n from experience, if ur talkin 2 somebody on the fone that much n u really like them, ur pretty much gonna grow tired of talking to him, so try n slow the fone calls down..there's nuthing sweeter than taking it slow.

Answer 3

You must be young ? why or how can you play hard to get over the phone. i know dont call him for like a week. he either be glad to hear from you or he might move on to someone who is a little easier to get to .

Answer 4

I think maybe by cutting down on your calls to him. He will start to miss you and make the effort to get in touch with you. It may then develop in to what you're looking for from him. You didn't give ages, so not sure if there is a legal issue here.

Answer 5

ok..first of all
check if he is married
then if he is not married then ur ok...ppl date ppl that are much older then them that is ok...but somehow he sounds like a player so the only way to play hard to get is you have not let him ask u out
try to stop him from making out...(if he gets mad..then u wouldnt wanna date him...that sounds like a playa)

uh dont flirt with him just talk like ur bestfrinds that is al i can think of right now so lata!

Answer 6

aww no i don't think you can play hard to get ovr the phone just go over 2 his house r 2 the movie

Answer 7

hii be open with him allways he you both know how much you love and care about eachother if you want more in life like dates outings fun then when you talk to him let him know your looking for more that just friends let him know how you feel today and seee just how he feels and says back keeping things and feelings open gives you the best chance of getting your man but if you hide how you feel to long them things mite stay like this i see tell you want so much more and hoping he does too talk about things your hopes dreams how u like things to be without saying its with him just yet then you will hear know what he things back and see what he wants in hes life too and go from there hoping he really wants you to in time heaps more as you know you want so allways be open with your feelings with him let him know see real you. good luck i hope this helps.

Answer 8

tell him u got asked out by a guy and u havent mde up ur mind ask him what he thinkks you should do. That will make him jealous and he will want u even more now that u might not be available

Answer 9

ooooo kool remember you hardly see him he is 5 yrs older and you dont know what he even does when your not around but sounds kool

Answer 10

Don't talk to him so often if you want to play hard to get.