My boyfriend's great,and he treats me like a princess but just recently he has suddenly become interested in everything i like,like all my favourite tv programmes,has started talking to all my friends(esp the guys),and even asking about one of my best friend's problems and about helping.It's like he's trying to take all this out of my life and make it his.I know this sounds really stupid...can you see where i'm coming from?
2007-01-11 09:43:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I see, and i understand. If u want him to stop, then ask him politly what, and why he has changed. I mean, if he doesnt want to break up, because it sounds like he is really trying to get u to like him more, and trying to impress u, breaking up is the wrong way to go. Get where i am comin' from? Look, just ask him what's up w/ the sudden difference of behavior. GL! ( Oh, and thats 4 being the only one w/ a good answer in my ?. Thankx. I think i will choose u as best answer. GL!)
2007-01-12 09:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does sound like he is getting a little too possessive.
If you don't want the relationship to end. Tell him that you feel like your life is taking his over, and you don't want that to happen, you don't want him to give up his identity to anyone, even you.
And if he spends his entire day every day trying to be more like you , at some point he will cease to be the person you fell in like with.
I hope this helps.
Good luck
If he takes this wrong you might want to break up with him. obsession is dangerous
2007-01-11 18:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mad Maxine 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋