I have trouble talking to my crush. Help?

Question

I have trouble talking to my crush, meaning I'm kinda shy. (I made another question) How can I talk to him?

Answer 1

Come up with some subjects that interest him that are sex neutral, cannot lead to uncomfortable innuendos, so you can break the ice and go from there. Another way to bust through this is to flirt with him physically if your mouth won't work right around him.

Answer 2

One of the hardest tasks that any person can do is to learn to talk to someone for which they feel strong emotions. It always seems like the emotions make the words come out in the worst possible way if they come out at all.

One of the quickest ways to make the task easier is to just tell him that you don't know why, but you seem to have problems talking to him. Then ask him what you should do about this.

This will break the ice and get all of the embarrassment out of the way. Even if you continue to have problems talking to him, in the future, when problems come to light, you can then say "See. I just knew something like this would happen." You can both laugh or giggle over such times.

All adult human relationships are based upon open and honest communication. The best way to learn to communicate with another person is to just do it. Talk. Listen. Learn to express your thoughts and feelings and learn how to make the other person comfortable enough for them to express theirs.

All you need to do is to make the choice to take the risk.