My mom doesnt like my b/f because he got me pregnant and we had a miscarrage so she took it upon herslef to tell me that she does not want me to see him EVER again!! i love him and i want to run away with him can you please help me??
2007-01-11 09:23:43 · 15 answers · asked by Miriam B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to your mother.
your mom will always be your mom you may not even be with this guy next month.
2007-01-11 09:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by You Lames! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont run away.........where will you go?? Where will you live??
How will you eat??
Parents always blame the other kid.......example.......his parents
probably think you are a bad influence on their son.
Your parents are just worried about you ruining your life. Becoming pregnant as a teenager changes your life.
Go to your parents in a mature fashion. Tell them that you really like this boy and want to keep seeing him. Ask them if there
is a way that maybe you can have chaparoned dates??
This will help you to be able to see the boy & give your parents peace of mind..........that you aren't gonna get pregnant again.
2007-01-11 09:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't shut me out when I say this. but, don't run away. Things will be even harder for you. Have a serious talk with your mom. Tell her you understand why she's upset, but it was BOTH you and your boyfriends decision to do what you did. It's both of your responsibilities. Remind her that most young guys would ditch their girlfriend if she got pregnant. However, yours stuck around, he didn't abandon you or your baby, and that says alot. When I say a serious talk, I mean ABSOLUTELY no screaming, yelling, saying "I hate you". None of that. It'll just make you look immature. I wish you and your family the best of luck.
2007-01-11 09:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are young and you weren't being careful your mother has a right to not like him....so give her some slack...although she is no position to tell you how to run your life....she is there to give you guidance and she can only tell what she thinks is best for you....but if you are thinking about runinng away with the guy sounds like you are truly in love...or just immature....either way....to think about a big decision like that you must have the courage to talk to your mom about how you feel.....she may not agree but you have to tell her how you feel about him....that could help her view of the guy.....which may lead to her liking him more
2007-01-11 09:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by Ana P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think practically for a minute. How old are you and your boyfriend? Are you in school or do you have jobs? How are you going to pay for food and shelter if you run away? It sounds very romantic to say you are going to run away together, but how will you live? p.s. Believe it or not, sometimes parents are right when it comes to boyfriends.
2007-01-11 09:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by Lee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinon if you really think your ready to live on your own, go ahead. Let me just remind you of all the things you'll be going through when your by yourself (and with your bf). Your going to have to get a job, get a house/appartement, pay rent for your house/appartment, pay bills, taxes, getting a car (if you don't already have one) and live a life knowing you could've done more.
Again, that's just my opinon
2007-01-11 09:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all....running is never the answer.....at all. Running would basically be letting your mom win. Second of all, if you would just toalk to her like a MATURE adult, then I am fairly sure you'd get somewhere. But yelling, pouting, and running would just let her know that you ARE immature, and that's the last thing you need.
2007-01-11 09:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by badhair92 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't run away unless it is from him! Your mom has lived through a lot in her lifetime and use some of her wisdom to help you.
2007-01-11 09:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd talk to your mom and tell her you've learned from the experience, and you've decided you're gonna be more careful and responsible.. have your boyfriend talk to her and apologize too. it's just best.. if u run away, for SURE she'll NEVER let u see him! this way, you still have a chance.. if u run away.. she'll most likely blame it on your boyfriend, and be even more angry.. please don't do it!
xo- jen
2007-01-11 09:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by beach blondie xox 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay home.do not but your parents through this it sounds like you and your bf have alot of growing up to do. if you run you will regret it and your mom will really hate your bf
2007-01-11 09:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋