He just e-mailed me today after not calling or e-mailing since June. How am I supposed to responed to the e-mail?
2007-01-11 09:16:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have any dignity at all, you should reply to his email telling him you no longer want to be in contact with him. It will be hard if you have feelings for him, but remind yourself how amazing you are. You are a wonderful person & you deserve to be treated with respect. Also, you deserve to be pursued, something he obviously isn't doing. If he continues to email you or call you for a long time, if you feel it's right, then take his call or respond to his email. But my best advice is to let go of this guy and move on. It will be hard, but you're worth being thought about and respected so much more than he's suggesting with his rude behavior. You have my sympathy. Good luck!
2007-01-11 09:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by indiesky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there !!!
Did you have a romantic relationship with this person or just friends?
You should respond, you never know what has been going on in this guys life. If you are that upset, when time is right let him know in a nice way how you feel. Do this with out name calling, passing judgement or anything like that.
If this is a behavior that is repeated over and over, well honey it would be your call to continue the friendship,. I know people that do not speak or write for a long time, then all of a sudden they begin to write or call. This does not mean they do not love you, just that maybe they have a lot on their plate.
In this journey we call life, we will encounter many relationships, each unique. Be a happy go lucky girl, live life to its uttermost. Do not sweat the small stuff, life is to short.
Wishing you many moons of happiness
Love light and peace
2007-01-11 17:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, I would ask, where have you been, and why havent I heared from you? If you were in an relationship with this person, there are many other questions, that should be asked,such as who have you been seeing? and where do we stand, and ask yourself, are you willing to continue going through such, every few months? You deserve to have a better union, surely, he havent been sitting home, thinking of you, no, he was occupied, doing something, which should have been done with you. As i'm thinking more about this, I would seek one, who is truly interested in me. Games like this, are for desperate people, who will accept any kind of treatment. Learn to want best for yourself, and you will draw to you, one who can respect and appreciate your time.
2007-01-11 17:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by ladymaryum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the email says. Sometimes men need time away from important women in their lives to see if they can make it without them. You know what your heart and head is tell you, go with those two. They can give you better advise than any stranger.
2007-01-11 17:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by jonesty1284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respond however you like. I doubt you would really want to extend too much courtesy to that someone since it's been so long and by the tone of your question but if you want to be nice you can, it's kinda up to you.
2007-01-11 17:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it depends on you. Do you want to give him a second chance? Then ask why the dry spell? If not just ignore the email.
2007-01-11 17:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by Snicklefritz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
respond as if nothing is wrong.....sometimes people just need someone to talk too....now if it goes farther than just a conversation , which makes you uncomfortable .....let him know....what happend in the past does not mean you can just pick up where you left off.......
2007-01-11 17:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by Ana P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say Hi, nice to hear from you. How are you doing?? I am doing ok. Just doing school or work. What about you?? How's your job or school? I hope you are doing well. Anyway, I gotta go now. Hope to hear from you.
2007-01-11 17:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask what he wants. Say its been quite some time since I have heard from you...........what can I do for you??
Without more info on who this person is to you (boyfriend, friend, etc)........I cant really give more info.
Boyfriend..........I would not even bother responding.
Friend............where have you been??
Someone who has hurt you.............
2007-01-11 17:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just let him go, it's too late to even talk now. i would just tell no i don't want to w/ you any more. or just ask him what happened to all those other time why didn't want to talk. just tell him to **** off and move on
2007-01-11 17:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by suny y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋