I like this boy for a very long time but i have never told him because i think he would just see me as a friend. Today, my friend told me that she liked him and if i could hook them two up. I said, yeah,so i told him that she liked him and he said he would have to get to know her before, he goes out with her and he likes her too. I dont know if i should still tell him that i like him? So please help people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-11 09:05:19 · 13 answers · asked by Lovely 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be true to your heart hon. Be open and honest about your feelings of wanting to get closer to him. I know it can be scary, but, be true to yourself and no matter what the out come may be, you should be able to sleep well after ward. Not speaking your feelings is tormenting yourself, so, do the right thing and treat yourself well. Good Luck
Cheers
2007-01-11 09:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by freefloatingelectron 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl should have never even told him that she was interested in him especially if you have been because now he knows and for you to say something now would be totally out of line . Because for one if you were that interested you would have told your friend you know what I'm interested in him so there is no way that i can tell him that . And for two it would now look like you are hating and stabbing your friend in the back so this is a no win sitatuitaion and the reason i say that is because if you tell this guy you are interested then you will be hurting your friend and if you do not and just let it be then you will be upset with self for not saying anything . I wish you the best of luck on this one!!!!
2007-01-11 17:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course, this is definently a tough one. I know how you feel. I'm actually crushing on a guy who gets a lot of attention from the opposite gender and i usually sit in the background. Okay this is what you should do. Tell yur friend, "U know, u guys might not be meant to be. There are tons of people in the world." By her expression you will know what to do.
If she says, "No!!! I really like this guy!!!", you should look at your perspective at him. If she says "So true", then wait a while (2 or 3 days) and talk normally. Soon, talk to the guy more often. Become HIS friend. Someone HE would say hi to and smile when he saw you. Become that girl. Hang out with him more often, too. Then tell him. Now if he says "we should just be friends", laugh it off. Say "sure no problem, just seizing life, talk to u later!", sound cheery and blow it off. Of course i doubt this will hapen :)
AND REMEMBER
love blinds u from the guy your really looking at. If you didn't like him this much, how would you see him?
maybe i should take my own advice lol :)
2007-01-11 17:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by Tabby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have been honest with him about your feeling from the beginning... if he is going to be receptive with you and have the same feeling then you got what you want, but if he will considers you as friend only then you did not loos anything. As far as the telling him now, i think it is too late since you hooked him up with your friend. they already going out together and getting to know each other. it is not fair for them to pop in the picture now. I am sure you do not want to build your happiness on someone else misery. move on like them as friend and do not hold your feeling to any one again in the future.
2007-01-11 17:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by broken heart 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoops! You'd better get to telling him you like him too or he's going to think you're only the go between for your friend and if he likes your friend, you've lost him.
Go tell him right NOW! Don't delay get off this computer right now and go after that guy if you really want him.
Good luck, :-)
2007-01-11 17:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's to late now. You told your friend you'd hook her up. wait did your friend know you liked if? if she did she's wrong for asking you to hook her up, if she didn't then it's too late for you. she is only going to think that you were stealing her man. be careful now.
2007-01-11 17:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing is to talk to him alone and explain what you havetold us and let him know how you feel. Sure it does sound daunting but you will find in relationships it is best to be honest and open to those you care about at all times and you will have much better relationships.
2007-01-11 17:11:13 · answer #7 · answered by Spastikus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this isn't what you wanna hear, but I would just find someone else to like. By doing that you will have less drama in your life.
2007-01-11 17:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to say it but i think you missed your chance for now. dont wait for them to break up move on to someone else and mybe down the road you will have another chance with him
2007-01-11 17:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by Bruce B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to tell him before he gets in a relationship.
2007-01-11 17:08:16 · answer #10 · answered by John Cena's BIGGEST fan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋