My bf and i have been going out for 3 months. He is my 2nd bf, and I am his 1st gf.
Abotu 3 weeks ago, we kissed for the 1st time. Very very 1st kiss ever, for both of us. We have kissed one other time.
We go to the same middle school, and see each other in between classes. We RARELY hold hands, but hug 5+ times a day.
Out of school, we cuddle & watch movies. Go places with each other & parents.
Well.......2day I wrote a note that simply said "I ♥ u"........
He barely said anything about, and didn't say anything back. We've said it b4, just playing around, but never really meaningfully.
Did I rush things? I think I really do, and wanted him to know that he is special to me. With my 1st bf we said it in like the 1st week!!
Was I wrong to do this 2day. I am really worried about it.
Tnx! :-)
2007-01-11 09:03:29 · 29 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some ppl take saying that really seriously, and some don't. I am right in the middle, but I dunno where he is.....
2007-01-11 09:12:51 · update #1
one day you will look back and laugh about middle school relationships
for now, just don't worry about it and chill out..it is rushing things...you don't need to tell him that you love him
2007-01-11 09:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Purple 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A written note doesn't make it meaningful and it could still be interpreted as a quaint or light-hearted gesture.
Really you are putting way too much thought and care in to this... just relax and let things happen as they will. If you start acting weird about it, he'll notice and that could throw everything off kilter.
Also it is probably not that early for you, considering you've obviously been going out for more than 3 weeks...
2007-01-11 17:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mike K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a misunderstanding of what love is. You are both in middle school and still young. You be careful using that word, thinking you are in love with one another could lead you to do things that are better left to older mature people. You need to take things slow and just enjoy the fella. Relax
2007-01-11 17:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by jonesty1284 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chill out sweetie, you're not stupid. You're young, and there's a difference. Just be thankful you screwed up now instead of at a later time and date. First off never tell anyone you love them.
Always say "You love me?"
by asking this question you are now putting lover boy on the spot light, and now he will be left guessing if you love him.
Remember mystery is one of the biggest keys to attraction
2007-01-11 17:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by danielsonrg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that it is too soon. I mean, if he isnt answering or anything then obvoiusly he doesnt even know what love is. He might be special to you, but that doesnt mean a lot. If you said it to your ex boyfriend then obviously you really didnt mean it to him. Maybe you just need to talk about it and actually figure it out for yourself what love is. Everything will work out even if it is not the way you want it to! GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-01-11 17:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by [[baby girl]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are trying to hard with this guy! If he is not really noticing you in school then he has a issue with you being in public with him. I think maybe you should back off alittle and treat him like he is treating you in school. Ignore him for once and see what he does then! This is only your first bf! You will have plinty of more in your life time. Don't get so attached on one!!! Heck, play hard to get if you have to!!!!
2007-01-11 17:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by bonham_2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhhhhh, to be a teenager, young and foolish again.
Keep in mind, that you are just learning of this thing called love, as is he. What you are experiencing, is just the very tip of the iceberg. You haven't done anything wrong, nor are you stupid. One can only learn as they do, by making mistakes.
You are young, and have plenty of time, you will make alot of mistakes, just never doubt yourself, everything will work out.
2007-01-11 17:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i don't get the mean answers to this question, but i think what u did is really sweet. i think your bf is just kinda... well, young.... and since ur both middle schoolers, maybe he's just not really sure how to handle something as serious as love. remember that at ur age boys are less emotionally mature than girls.
2007-01-11 17:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by 1A2B3C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you didnt do anything wrong,in fact that's the sweetiest thing I've ever heard :)
Dont worry everything will be fine,just dont be pushy,dont say it again,until he does,and if he doesnt with time,bring it up and ask him why he hadnt replied.
Good luck.
Being in love is great.
2007-01-11 17:09:52 · answer #9 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-11 17:07:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋