should you tell her that if you feel that she likes you as well?
2007-01-11 08:54:54 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should tell her you like her when you want to tell her. There's nothing wrong with that but I wouldn't say that you feel that she likes you too because you would be sounding conceited. Just let her tell you that.
2007-01-11 08:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by K-E-G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably figured out you liked her when you were getting ready to ask her out for the first date.
So... don't go all weird on her, but let her know whenever it feels natural. When you're both laughing at the same thing, or have some kind of connection, you can always just smile at her, give her a squeeze on the shoulder, and say something like "I knew I liked you for a reason."
And here's the thing... I've been married for almost 28 years, dated her for a year and a half before that, and was best friends with her for two years before THAT. And I'm here to tell you that while there's a lot to be said for love and for sexual attraction, LIKING somebody is, in my opinion, the single most important predictor of a good relationship. Why? Because if you like somebody, you're more willing to cut them some slack, do nice things for them, and just get along with them better. Being around somebody you like just makes everything that much nicer.
So let her know! It'll make her like you, too!
2007-01-11 09:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by Scott F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you shouldn't have to. If you went out with her to begin with then she knows that you like her. But if you are talking about mentioning those three little I love you words. The second date is too soon, unless you are like me and my fiance. We were frieds for years and then actually told each other how we felt before our first date. Too much emotion too soon will scare her away or make her think that you are lonely and would have been happy with anyone, making her less special. But if it is just liking I see no reason why you shouldn't tell her that you have strong feelings for her and you would like to see where that might lead.
2007-01-11 09:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by Pekabu2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell her you like her on the second date its way too early you can tell her you had a good time with her and you think she's special. Let her think about what you are trying to say so she has a chance to think about how she feels about you. don't rush things if you two have something special it will come out naturally
2007-01-11 09:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by Bruce B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you already feel that she likes you back than it's definetly a good thing for a guy to be honest about his feelings.
It's how you tell her that you gotta work out - don't go overboard, as this might scare her away. It depends on the type of girl she is. For eg: is she the type that's into romance - if so you should go right ahead and sweep her off her feet!
Good luck
2007-01-11 09:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
2nd date?!?! well its obvious you two like each other if u made it to two dates... so tell her... be sweet about it.. but dont pressure her into anything serious... just throw it out there and see how she responses.... if she reciprocates the same feeling... then have a 3rd and a 4th date! For a good relationship becomes freinds 1st b4 you move straight to lovers
2007-01-11 09:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should never tell a woman that you like her on a seconed date wait until the 3rd or 4th unless you feel that she feels the same way about you but if you feel comfy about it just let her know
2007-01-11 08:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Telling someone you like them in the first meeting is OK thing to do. Just don't tell her you love her yet. That will be a spooky thing to say, the first time you know someone. The other day, this girl told me she likes me a lot and said nice things about me on my first day in class. That was making me feel so good about myself, and feel comforable to sit next to her and be in that class. It is a OK thing to say if you like someone.
2007-01-11 09:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are on the second date, she may have an idea that u like her.. If she accepted she may like u also, just be respectful to her and enjoy each others company, and have fun together...
2007-01-11 08:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by mean evil woman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is too soon to put it into words. She must know you like her or you wouldn't be asking her out. Wait a couple of more weeks so you are sure she feels the same way...by accepting your invitations you should know.
2007-01-11 09:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋