11 months ago we ran into eachother and hit it off.I was still bitter about catching my ex of a few years cheating,he listened and understood(they r mutual friends)he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was such a gentman,things were awkward when he left the next morning,a mutual freind told me he liked me but was freaked about my ex(who was trying to get me back)i saw him again 2 months later,he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex was also there and upset that we liked eachother.I sent him a text a couple weeks after and he never replied.I saw him again at a party 6 months later he walked in saw me and looked away quick.
2007-01-11 08:53:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive. Talk to him, you haven't said yet that you two have talked at all! Why would you care so much about what both of your ex's are thinking anyway? Are you both wanting your ex's back? Make up your dang mind! If you can't do that, then neither of you will have the other. Life is not complicated, it is only us, and our lack of taking control, that makes it seem so.
2007-01-11 09:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by xenypoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are interested in starting something with him, doesn't he deserve something more than a text message? Call him and invite him for coffee or something and tell him how you feel. He probably is keeping his distance from you now because of how he feels for you and his friendship with your ex. Set a time with him where you two can really talk about what you want. Do it in a private setting, far away from your ex. Good luck!
2007-01-11 16:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by Aunie Stina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you torment the guy like that? Asking him to sleep with you, cuddle you and then not be in touch with him. You've put him in an awkward situation between his friend and yourself. XXXX or get off the pot.
2007-01-11 16:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by Tab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking this same question. This is like the fourth time you asked this in a two hours.
You keep getting the same answers.
2007-01-11 16:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Sammie_Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible because of his actions towards you. He has feelings for you and I am sure that he does not know what to do with them. Maybe you should try and get him to have a sit down.
2007-01-11 17:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by DLB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it seems as if he was affected, but also it seems as if he was in a difficult place. 'Cause surely if he was speaking to you he was also speaking to your ex. So as a friend how was he suppose to respond if you were giving one signal but your ex was giving another?
2007-01-11 17:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by JennieJen01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously has feelings for you and he isnt sure what exactly you want and he doesnt want to jeopordize his friendship with your ex. You need to decide how exactly you feel and if you want the ex or him.
2007-01-11 16:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by nellyann1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well- alot of things can affect a mans feelings. The possibilities are endless.
2007-01-11 16:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by Cheesy Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is. It seems like he cares about you. <3
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2007-01-11 16:57:48 · answer #9 · answered by oh snapp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they person is really hurting and longing for you tell them how you feel that way they can get on with life
2007-01-11 16:58:22 · answer #10 · answered by marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋