OK so when i was younger my ex boyfriend (we were together at the time) took advantage so to speak of me and i did not say anything to anyone in fear that no one would believe me or call me a tramp.... My boyfriend now knows what happend and has stuck with me through some pretty tough times... he feels like since i have been his only and technically i have had 2 (1 not by choice) that i should allow another girl in our bed and be ok with it JUST once. with me there and not neccesarly haveing sex but still. He tells me that i should not be worried because i am the one he comes to bed to and sleeps with and wants to marry me and have kids with me.... am i wrong for not likeing the idea and wanting to be his only or should i go ahead with this 3 some??? HELP me please
2007-01-11 08:52:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think there are two seperate issues going on here. First; I would seek counseling on what happened to you. This way, you deal with it, you'll have dealt with it and can move on. This will also help in dealing with relationships int eh future. I would not agree to anyone else along with you guys. Ask him why that would be fun to him and let him know you aren't interested in it. I wouldn't do it even on a bet; so no; there's nothing wrong with you =)
2007-01-11 08:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to not go along with it
2007-01-11 17:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not give it a try.
you might realize it is fun.
2007-01-11 17:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by Elvis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋