How do you feel about this? I feel it's very posible and in some cases beneficial, because associating sex with love ans vice versa will force emotional commitment where there really isn't any.
Emotional attachement (love) should develop on its own without any influence from a physical act (sex).
This is one of the issues that I address in my blog, http://360.yahoo.com/howtocheatonyourgirlfriend, but I thought I would get everyone's opinion to see if I'm on the right track here.
Thanks.
2007-01-11 08:52:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm your blog states good points, but I think ppl just have to know what they're getting into. If they know that they only want sex from this person then how is it possible to think ur in love if you already know what was initiated? Also, me being a woman, I've been able to seperate sex and love, however if ur dating someone on a regular basis and then you start to have feelings for that person depending on the circumstances of the relationship and you start to think maybe you like him/her and want something more...is that love? but what if your still sleeping with ppl on the side and you're able to exclude them from your feelings and just keep em around for sex or just have a one night stand....point being is if you know you only want sex with that person keep it a one night stand...seeing the person more than once can lead to an unwanted attachment especially if the other person is not looking for just sex
2007-01-11 09:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by a1980 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋