I have asked him for several times but he doesn't want to tell me if he is really positive /not.
2007-01-11 08:41:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe, maybe not. Hard to tell. If he is not giving you an answer to your inquiry, maybe you should give him an answer to his first. Maybe he just doesn't like having his question being answered with a question and not an answer. Also, if he is HIV+, he may want to prepare himself emotionally for your reaction to the news.
2007-01-11 08:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by J T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! I really hope that this is a bogus question. He could have simply been asking you the question but if he doesn't want to tell you his HIV status you NEED to RUN to the nearest clinic. Why is he even still your boyfriend if he can not be honest with you about his status? Situations like these are why people become infected, but not asking and excepting no answer at all either way. I hope you have not done anything that has put you at risk, if you have start praying.
2007-01-11 09:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by jonesty1284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you'd better get yourself checked and stop having sex with the guy if he refuses to answer your question.
That he's a very stressed person and needs reassurance is one thing; That he wants to be reassured how much you love him is fair enough;
But he has no right to treat you like this.
This is the type of question which requires a straight answer.
Anyway, how would he have contracted the virus? Does he sleep around? Is he into drugs? Is he in a bi relationship? Did he hurt himself? Did he receive any transfusion he has reason to fear about?
Well, if the guy refuses to answer your question because he's afraid to lose you, he's just being selfish.
You just have to take matters in your own hands and go for THE test!
Good luck.
2007-01-11 08:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would insist on a straight answer before having sex with him, for starters. Communication is extremely important in relationships. If he won't give you a direct answer to such an important question, you both need some help in the communications department, if you wish to continue the relationship.
If he's hedging, he may not know himself, or he knows and is afraid of how you will react to the news.
2007-01-11 08:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by not yet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds to me like you've got a real winner there. Your boyfriend is an asshole, steer clear. I'd bet he's HIV+, why else would he be bringing it up? Would he be trying to mess with your head?? Before you ditch this loser (and I trust you will) ask him to show you his test results.
2007-01-11 08:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay I have felling hes hiding form u something... he could be HIV +.. u never know.. I f I was u I will stop having sex with him ether protected or unpracticed and get tested.. and if u was HIV + and hopefully not I pary to god from my heart .... Its bad.. GIRL..... its ur life ... HIV its not a game he need to get tested if he refused.. its over.. but hurry... don't Waite for him.. get tested both of u
2007-01-11 08:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by I_belong_to_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap is right! first, most important, put ur clothes back on and get out of his bed. j/k, but seriously, stop all action till u get an answer. tell him ur not joking around with him. ask him seriously if he's positive. if he keps messin around, tell him it's over. he shouldn't play with u like that, bcuz if u get it ur whole life is screwwed.
oh yeah, get urself tested.
2007-01-11 08:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by POPSICLES 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pray that the two of you haven't done anything. And why in the world are you so laid back about this. You better put your foot down. You do not need to be infected. Give him an ultimatum that if he doesn't go and get test that your going bye-bye. Please get yourself tested.... This is not something to play.
2007-01-11 08:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by Naomi B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap, if he won't tell you, then that's trouble. If he is positive, he's a jerk for not telling you. And if he's not, what's up with him? He's making you worried for his own pleasure. Tell him to get tested and tell you the results, or it's over.
2007-01-11 08:43:58 · answer #9 · answered by Briar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT GOOD!!!!!!! Hopefully, you have NOT had sex with him.
If you have.......then go get tested RIGHT AWAY and STOP SLEEPING WITH HIM!!!
Either way you look at it..........I would say dump him. Someone who uses the HIV virus for laughs is a little wacko.
2007-01-11 08:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by Trish 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋