Okay been dating my bf for alittle over 6 months.....we are both in our 30's and have talked about marriage, having kids, etc....
The past week has been very strange....we normal talk a few times a day text each other etc but I have spoke to him once this whole week. He sometimes is very immuture as if you do not call me I will not call you......I do love him but I am to old to have to play these little games. I was married for 7 years and have been single now for 3 years. I enjoy my indepence but if it was up to him we would spend 24/7 together. Am I been a b**ch? Everything else is wonderful but something deep down inside says move on!!!!
Any advise is welcome......
2007-01-11 08:39:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Generally your gut is right. If you've invested some time in this person, try not to be too impulsive because we all have good and bad days. If your bad days coincide, then you'll feel poorly about prospects. However if you think you know what's really happening, then go with it.
2007-01-11 08:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by Glennroid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its started of this way with my ex... and then progresses to being a control issues. My advice either tell him to stop and if he does not plz move on ... I thought everything was great .. lets ignore this bt.. but now that i've broken up cuz he became abusive and controlling my everymove ... and even now .. after the break up .. he still is in contact wanting to know stuff.. its so uncomfertable....
be careful ..
2007-01-11 08:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I don't think ur a b!otch, but I think you shouldn't get married to this guy if you want any freedom. My advice is to move on and find someone that lets you have your space, but that still loves you enough to want to be with you 24/7, but knows you well enough to know that wouldn't work. I say follow what is deep down inside you.
2007-01-11 08:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by I_LOVE_VICTORIAS SECRET 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not a b*****ck her is the problem you are a person he is too demanding for your time he should let you do your own thing, or else you guys will break up,he has to think of your need s before his,he has to Wait till you are ready to see him, also you two need to talk to a counsellor.or else it,s not going to last , i when through the same thing with my wife, she to would like it to be 7/24 but we got help and now we are marryed for31/2 years but without the help we know it would n,t be like this far in to marrage. try the callage they offer help for people out of callage. for free.
2007-01-11 08:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does sound pretty immature. I wouldn't break up with him just yet, have a talk with him, tell him where you're coming from. If he's still immature then definately move on.
2007-01-11 08:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by Manda * 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might be a little obsessive. Talk to him about how you feel. If he doesn't straighten up, move on you don't need him!!
2007-01-11 08:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Amanda♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sound like you are not happy and your inter self is trying to tell you that. a man at 30 should not be immature. that why he still single..
2007-01-11 08:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a real man not an old emo
2007-01-11 08:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by breastfed43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your intuition.
2007-01-11 08:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
follow your instincts.
2007-01-11 08:43:51 · answer #10 · answered by Biker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋