2007-01-11 08:27:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not necessarily wrong until THEY FIND OUT!! If everyone is cool with it - then its fine. If not - be prepared to go into the witness protection plan for a while.
2007-01-11 08:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by toolgirl150 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to have 2 girlfriends at the same time IF you're being honest and completely clear with them about the fact that you're not dating them exclusively... especially if there's sex involved.
Sometimes the timing is such that these things happen. You meet one girl you'd like to get to know... and then another.
Eventually you'll have to choose though. And eventually you're going to break a heart. It doesn't matter if you've been honest with them about your relationship or not - you will break a heart... maybe both.
If you've lead either to believe that the relationship between the two of you is exclusive, then my answer would be different. In that case, it's not okay. That would mean that you're starting a relationship off on a foundation of dishonesty, and that's never good.
2007-01-11 16:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by freckleface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rayoon hon, nowadays it is dangerous to have multiple people in your life. People are crazier. Some of them are majorly sick physically or mentally or both. And it is so much easier to deal with only one person at a time.
now, after saying all that, if you do explain to your dates that you are dating multiple people, and nobody objects, then everything is fine. Just be careful. The world is a very strange and very dangerous place now.
2007-01-11 17:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by the witch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because whether you are a man or a woman you like to feel like number one to your other and it is impossible to give your all to one, when there is to. If you want 2 girls, you dont love either.
If your dating, then its fine. You can date more than one girl at a time. No commitment. So if you could date, why would you be in a relationship if thats not what you want?
2007-01-11 16:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The potential for 2 mothers-in-law?
2007-01-11 16:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok- if you are honest with them, it's called "DATING"- Not exclusive, then if you marry and you both still screw other people it's called "swinging". If you are man enough to admit to each girl what you want...
You may not find one that wants to share- When you do, you have to be willing to share too. If that is what you ultimately want, it better be what you are looking for in a mate.
Equality, honesty?
Think about it.
2007-01-11 16:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by juicy13500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when you enter into a relationship with one person, you're committing to them and whatever terms you've both agreed to. If your girlfriend wants a one woman guy and you're with her, you're agreeing to those terms. If she wants an open relationship and you're with her, you're agreeing to those terms. Anything outside of what you've both mutually agreed to is considered "wrong".
2007-01-11 16:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by lovelyladee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it is not wrong ...but , it's not true love ..!! unless, you want to make a choice, but you really can't love 2 persons at the same time ..!!
2007-01-11 16:31:56 · answer #8 · answered by Roy A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they both know about the other, then it isn't wrong. But, if you are sleeping with both of them, then you are an a**. That's disgusting.
2007-01-11 16:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by redbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you tell her that the two of you are exclusive why would they assume they are the only one? IF you lie to them, then its wrong.
2007-01-11 16:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋