Our one year old has been in the same car seat since she was 7 months old. I know we shouldn't, be we turned it around to face front last month. Since, she's been much happier in it. But in the last 2-3 days, whenever I put her in, she screams and arches her back and just makes it impossible for me to put her in there.
I checked it thoroughly and there is nothing that is hurting her when I put her in.
After I struggle to get her in, she just cries and cries. As soon as I start driving, she's quiet and enjoys the drive. She talks to herself and her toys and has a great time.
I don't understand why she just hates the process of being put in there. I'm getting very frustrated with this because it is such a hassle to go anywhere. And I only go somewhere 2-3 times a week, so it's not like she's sick of being out and about.
Any ideas of what could be wrong? Any ideas on what I can do?
Thanks
2007-01-11 08:25:13 · 12 answers · asked by happymommy 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
It is a phase.........just be strong and thankful she doesn't cry the whole time she is in the car. Once she realizes her fits don't make a difference she will stop.
2007-01-11 08:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by JS 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is usually just a stage, you will have to be patient to get through it. Babies on the verge of walking and being able to explore the world themselves just hate to be confined. You can try to make the car more fun - keep a couple of toys in the car that she can play with. Also, try turning on the radio with a kids CD that she likes. Since her carseat faces forward, you may be able to put a mirror on the back of the front seat so that she can see herself.
2007-01-11 12:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are talking about, but it is just a phase. I know its a real hassle, but its just something you have to put up with. After a while, when she knows you won't back down, she will figure out something else she can fuss about. Thats just kids. You've got to be hard-hearted and do the responsible thing of putting her in her car seat, its for her safety.
2007-01-11 09:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by Terry Z 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most 1 year olds do this. Why not try singing her a song while you buckle her in. Try to distract her. You haven't done anything wrong by putting the seat forward, as long as she is over 20 pounds and 1 year. Good luck!
2007-01-11 08:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by michaellandonsmommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assume she remains rear dealing with. it must be because of the fact she will't see you. attempt a putting replicate. They lead them to for cribs and motor vehicle seats. yet another thought is to have an ornamental solar shield on the window. perchance its too bright, or she does not like seeing issues bypass with tips from so directly. that's a competent distraction. toddlers can get action ailment too, giving her something to concentration her interest on could help. additionally, some motor vehicle audio device make severe pitch noises that we don't constantly hear in view that we are driving. attempt having the radio on a classical or gentle melody station. verify the quantity is low so as to no longer injury her ears. very final suggestion. perchance the vehicle seat itself isn't soft. verify for confusing spots or non padded areas. infants are very soft. think of of the princess and the pea. it ought to no longer be a huge deal notwithstanding it ought to reason discomfort. you additionally can purchase seat inserts that are gentle, heat and upload padding. Kiddopotamus has a brilliant one that is utilized in maximum seats.
2016-10-07 00:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ideas, jsut stick with it. she doesn't have an option, she is just testing you right now. She got you to turn it around too early;now maybe she can get you to forget the thing altogether. This is a battle you have to win for her safety. Just stay calm, keep strapping her in, and turn the music up real loud to drown her out ;)
2007-01-11 12:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by toomanycommercials 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a phase. Most infants and toddlers hate being put in their carseat at some point. I know plenty of moms who have gone through that with their children.
2007-01-11 08:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by rosie_posie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'll find that toddlers are very fickle. I have 2 boys, one aged 10, and one aged two and I've found it to be very true. One day, they like something, the next day, they HATE it. One day they love something, and tomorrow they love something else.
My advice to you is as long as she settles herself down to not worry about it. It may be a control thing too. Toddlers like to push the issue to see how far you will let them take it. I would stay calm and buckle her in and let her continue to calm herself down.
Good luck!
2007-01-11 08:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥Mrs SSG B♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it fun by adding a toy that she will love. I have saw a steering wheel that you can attach to a car seat. Then you can tell her she can drive the car, too.
2007-01-11 12:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My baby is the same I think all babies are at some point...
how about getting her a cute looking car seat...something with designs and not too bulky...
2007-01-11 09:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by Just Me and My Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋